Anybody else in here, feel the way I do??  

mpaul3 53M
48 posts
8/29/2006 11:05 am

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Anybody else in here, feel the way I do??

A famous line from Pink Floyd's landmark album of '79, The seems to me it is an appropriate title for my lasted post here...

Although, I've been having some measure of success in getting noticed on this site, I still find the overall effect to be a teasing, and tantalizing nugget that is always just out of reach. Ladies, I'm sure you are sick of hearing the usual whinning from the male members here. But, I must say, you ladies have no idea what a frustrating process it is dating, or even just looking for someone online, from the viewpoint of a single male. 1) Most of you ladies, have had truly bad experiences with men either online or in "real" life. I understand that, and sympathize. My problem is being lumped into the group of "phucktards, creeps, and pervs" you all have to deal with on a daily basis. Yes, there are a lot of men out there who are predators, fakes, and what have you, but I know for a fake there are also good men out there, like me, and many other men on this site, and in the general population.
2) Why must I or anyone else have to be fodder for someone else's behavior? 3) Do I have a target on my back that says, "SUCKER"??!! I often ask myself that question, because, I truly seem to only attract bots, and phonies purely looking to spam, and out and out swindle me...anyhow...
I will stop the ranting and raving so anyone wanting to weigh in on these subject can get in a word edgewise...

esseneff1000 105F
151 posts
9/1/2006 1:24 pm

I feel bad for the nice guys that are sincere in trying to find someone through this site. I hear your complaint from them repeatedly, so I know it's real.

I swear I'm real! But you'll have to wait to meet me to find that out...LOL

Etherealbreeze 54F

10/5/2006 1:17 am

You know it works both ways...I've been contacted by real creeps that mistake me for a free whore or worse, a piece of meat at the butcher's; the worst part of that is that they don't even realize that they are being uncomplementary. I none-the-less answer each e-mail personally, directly and honestly to the point of being blunt. In my profile it says that I'm non-judgmental and I'm not, but I am honest and know what I want. My profile also says not to ask me questions because you might not like the answers. But still I do not judge people, they are who they are; just as I don't want to be judged. I do not lump genders in the asshole class, whether they be female or male. I treat people as individuals, but reserve the right to decide whether I have anything in common with that person or not. Just as I except someone not wanting to know me, it's their right. As for those women you mention, think of them kindly because though they've lumped you with others, they are only afraid which makes them strike back. This has to do with my blog, about not needing to understand women, and thanks for commenting on it. Remember, there's nothing to fear but fear itself.


I am Roz , a rose that's ephemeral and rare. Yet always here! Hugz!

Etherealbreeze 54F

10/5/2006 1:22 am

error...where it reads expect it should read accept... Sometimes I get carried away.


I am Roz , a rose that's ephemeral and rare. Yet always here! Hugz!

tackman57 59M  
182 posts
12/29/2006 8:11 pm

Hi, mpaul3! Just ran across your blog looking through this group. Don't feel bad about this particular problem you're having. I'm a gay man & have an almost similar problem. The difference is that most gay, bi, or bi-curious men WANT a man-slut they can hit once & run. While I realize that most people on this site ARE interested in sex with others (as am , I would like to become friends first (or even FRIENDLY) before the humping begins. Of course, a big problem I have since joining this site is that I'm not as of yet able to download pics, or have a cam (9 year old, highly compromised, post-major-crash computer). Without pics to share, many people are just not interested in bothering to respond to e-mails, winks, etc. That will change this January when I will finally replace my computer system. HOWEVER, I have met some very nice men on this site who have actually WANTED to get to know me & don't mind (or are willing to bet that my description of myself IS what I've said it is) that I don't have pics yet. What I've learned from this site is much like real life, finding good people to share you life with is damned hard work, takes a huge amount of time, & requires an exceptionally deep well of patients. If you're lucky to possess these qualities, you'll do well on this site. Believe me, you have to go through hundreds of people to find one person who is interested in the REAL you. And of those people, only about 1% will actually be interested in you sexually, or, in your case, realize that you ARE the wonderfully, nice guy you are. Don't let the "hunt" & all the NEGATIVE people get you down. Enjoy the hunt & cherish the WONDERFUL people you find! Good luck, my friend! Mark - tackman57

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