some people just don't get it  

monkeygirl1971 46F
20 posts
8/28/2006 7:49 pm

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9/29/2006 9:02 pm

some people just don't get it

So, for the first time on AdultFriendFinder I was a bitch to someone who emailed me. But after three emails, each which received a polite decline, and at least one which stated I was looking for single guys, I just got fed up and this is what I wrote. It's like a little ethics lesson.lol

I feel a bit like you are pushing my buttons, so I am going to honest, in my opinion you are hurting your girlfriend, whether she finds out now or later that you fuck around behind her back, a lie is a lie and they damage people and relationships. If you had the slightest bit of respect for her or cared even the littlest bit, you would not fuck around behind her back. If she doesn't put out enough, isn't kinky enough or you can't can be in a monogamous relationship you need to talk to her about> These are my ethics and my feelings, I want nothing to do with someone who actively chooses to do something they know would hurt another person. So, I am sorry but I don't even want to just hang out.


rm_ORB486 57M

9/9/2006 3:09 am

It is a gal's prerogative to be a bitch. And a guy's to be a jerk.


monkeygirl1971 46F

9/9/2006 4:56 am

glad to sexist stero types are still alive and well. Everyone bitches sometimes, it's called complaining. But not everyone is a jerk.


rm_ORB486 57M

9/9/2006 11:55 am

Not ecstatic to find the stereotype police are still functioning in the new millenium. Only the former want to believe bitching to be equivalent to complaining. And "a bitch" (your admission) can encompass more than bitching. And obviously not everyone is a jerk, hence the preface of the term prerogative. But each can be forgiven occasional lapses when warranted. In your case it seemed to me to be warranted. But New York abstains, courteously.


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