how young to let kids date  

mmwants 44F
163 posts
8/11/2005 9:11 pm

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how young to let kids date

what is your view? This is what I said today and got slammed for it . . . .

used to sneak into clubs when I was 16 also! Although I wasn't allowed to "date' per sey, my first romantic relationship was from the age of 13 until a week before my 18th birthday. I didn't drink until I was 18, but was a virgin until I was 19..........

Daughter and I negotiated,

1. I can try to put makeup on her any time I want - this keeps her form wanting to do it to herself. Makeup at 13

2. Dating at 16

3. Smoking and drug use the day she moves out

4. Sex when she makes $30,000.00 a year and support any surprising bi-products


redmustang91 57M  
8605 posts
8/12/2005 12:29 am

Well I think a graduated approach is more sensible. Use the baseball approach. first base or kissing at 15. Second base or breasts at 16. Mutual masturbation or blow jobs at 17; intercourse with condoms at 18. As Clinton said it depends how you define "sex".


maclover965 51M

8/13/2005 12:05 am

In today's world, if it works then it's a good plan. Remember, you'll always be Mom and she'll always be the daughter so "never" is still an option.


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