setting the record straight  

miz_attitude 53F
237 posts
8/1/2006 6:30 pm

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setting the record straight

well i decided to hell with it i am joining the blogging revolution ...
got tired of these people blogging about what i am supposed to have said and decided to talk for myself ...

i do not care who does what for kink for how long they do or how long they have been doing it for ... BUT i am tired of everyone assuming because the name is miz_attitude that i have a bad attitude ... negative people automatically assume negative things i suppose but an attitude can be good too ya know ...

those who do not know me or that have not talked to me are being as judgmental as they accuse me of being simply by speaking .... if you know me you would know i do not get upset in that room ... i am typically laughing as i sit and type my posts perhaps taking the time to READ everything i type in a post some of y'all would spot the ~S~ as a smile or the LOL as a laugh or even the fact i grin giggle and smirk ...

before you step on your soap box and make speeches about me and my friends i think you should turn that box over and use the contents to clean your own house first ....

we do not visit other rooms we stay in the basement the reason we go to the basement is to discuss BDSM and this is something we did for a few more years longer then y'all have been on the site and we have made friends in cyberland and in real time ...

now about judging and picking on people hmmmm seems this is coming from the same ones time and time again and they have been whining about it since they were newbys ... i have chatted on phone and in person with many people from AdultFriendFinder and so far ~knock on wood~ i have enjoyed the company of everyone i have met from the basement .... and for the record they have enjoyed mine .. we have sat real time and discussed issues of BDSM and D/s and WIITWD.... i have my own opinions on what i like and do not like but NEVER have i judged others for what they do ...

how people play is not for me to say right and wrong but it seems whatever i say and do is for others to judge as right and wrong ...

i believe in Trust Honor Commitment and Loyalty in any relationship i have wether sexual BDSM D/s or platonic

in discussions i state what i believe or was taught or how i understand it i ask questions trying to get other peoples take on things or if i do not understand and i seek clarification .... if people think i am wrong great bring it on tell me why change my mind make me see your point of view it is not like i haven't changed and grown over the years of learning and let me tell you I Love It ...

i am starting to think that perhaps there might just be a few too insecure people reading what i say and taking offence because they judge themselfs and put infliction into my words to bash themselfs ....

i hate to point this out but for me i have a real time life and more to worry about then how someone from a BDSM chatroom plays .... i would rather be more productive and further my real time understanding and knowledge of BDSM ...

when i came to the basement it was a place to learn and ask question i was encouraged to express an opinion and ask how things work ... i was taught by One of my all time favorite people that i was allowed to voice my opinion and i was allowed to keep asking questions until i understood completely what was being said ...

if people have a problem with me asking questions or trying to understand for myself then i suggest you just do as you say to everyone else and simply iggy me ... it will not hurt my feelings abit because chances are if you are getting all up in a stink by me asking questions or saying my opinions then you do not know me have already prejudged me and if so then you are really not someone i would be interested in speaking with anyhow ...

anyhow this is my blog i am not sure if i will write another or not but i figured it was time to set the record straight ......


rm_lickety_s 56M

8/1/2006 7:03 pm

Well said miz

DizzyKittie81 35F

8/1/2006 7:07 pm

Damn right mizzy!!!!!!!! I couldnt agree with you more. I'm getting anoyed with all the wannabes attacking because they cant look up what we say on google fast enough to cut and past to respond

chemistrywu 47F

8/1/2006 7:15 pm

miz you've always had the balls.....but on a number of things your right. The basement has changed over the years, and some of us have changed with it. You still voice your opinons where i just have let it go, and actually quit caring one way or another about the basement. But you know that we've discussed this before. If you have something to say you go girl....i did not actually care for miz when i first met her, i thought she was demanding, bossy, kind of pushy, but as i grew to actually KNOW HER then she is none of those things she just believes in what she has learned and she is willing to go all the way with a discussion...and if she is proven wrong then she learns and is willing to attempt it....She is a wonderful person, full of life and love and if you become a friend to her she is always there for you.....

sunnyohoh5 60F
4 posts
8/1/2006 11:13 pm

mizzy, AMEN..thank you for setting the records straight, and hopefully enlightening those who attack us. i have been in the basement probably longee then most in there..i was there when the intro to the room wasa discussed and agreed upon, and i know what the reason for was. If trying to carry on the spirit of what this room was created for is going to tick off people, then oh well. People need to get pass your name and get to know you, and listen to you. No one has all the answers..something we have always said so to be called know-it-alls..shows how they are unwilling to listen to any opinion, or idea different from them. Those that accuse us of being close minded and trying to push our ideas on others need to look in the mirror, and ask themselves..what is it they are doing? People are forgetting that imo means in my opinion, and i think means its an opinion. I know we have ha our hell we still do..but the one thing we will always agree upon is letting people know what a wonderful experience bdsm can be when done safely, and informatively. If trying get that point acreoss means being opinionated..then so be it. I have had the pleasure of meeting you, and talking , and laughing with you, an i am proud to call you one of my good friends...Keep on trying....keep on hopefully keep on learning and teaching..luv ya girl!..uh...PS sarge??..uh..can i have a raise??

rm_jacina_n 43F
91 posts
8/2/2006 9:32 am

Too true mizzy........the basement has turned into a cross between a nilla retreat and place to get on your soap box about everything other than BDSM.....this one has fond memories of the way it used to be and would love for it to be that way again.

Maybe is time for those who don't like the truth of your words to sod off and find somewere else to play.


bullmastiffagain 41F
23 posts
8/2/2006 1:59 pm

well said hun. i may be vanilla in the lifestyle but i am learning about myself and my wants in the lifestyle. everyone is different, if everyone liked everything the same we would have a very boring world

Camzilla 53M
18 posts
8/2/2006 3:34 pm

Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind. *S*

rm_Melciber 61M
214 posts
8/3/2006 11:20 am

Good to see you putting your thoughts down for the record.

I too wonder about the loss of certain senior members from the Basement - our loss too.

Sometimes the chat is more like The Waltons . . .

Ah - well.

BadAssBlonde1 57F
4989 posts
8/6/2006 5:16 pm

Well now Mz., all I have to say about that is welcome to BlogVille Personally, the next time I come into the room I want my soap box prearranged in the middle of the floor for easy access, in and out. Could you handle that for me? The few times that I have been in the room lately I have found it to be a hostile environment with nothing but negative energy. Some folks are gonna keep digging up those bones and they aren't going to like what they find at the bottom. As for the insecurities that dwell and reside in the Basement, there is an overabundance. My time is very valuable as well as everyones. I do not like to spend it in a place with people that I feel are disrespectful. This would never happen in real time. Life is too short and there is much to do and accomplish in life to get caught up in negativity and cease to grow. I do feel that there are those that are genuine and want to learn.

Blog On and I'll WriteOn! I guess that headache will never disappear

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YouNeverSawMe 47M

8/9/2006 3:36 am

well for one, I am just mad as a hatter that you didnt confess your undieing love for me in that blog!!!! *sniff sniff* lol well said miz

Lukn2know_ 63M
117 posts
9/19/2006 3:48 am

Hello Love(if I may ,still)
We older(senior) members have watched the basement reduced to just another datin site chat room, I for One applude you, as I have always liked the rebel submisive in you.
Miss you always!

Sin'cerely, Love Lukn

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