Too Honest Regarding Relationship Idea?????!!!  

SquabNewelAroyl 49F
54 posts
2/22/2006 3:58 pm

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Too Honest Regarding Relationship Idea?????!!!

Wow! I am completely honest in my profile and now I can't get anyone's attention! Wow! Am I supposed to lower my standards and say "Hey buddy....I'll fuck you!"...just to get attention? Just because I am not sleazy and I have standards...doesn't mean that I am set in stone with what I will do... EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT AND EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT!!!! You never know what I will be like until you allow opportunity to come knockin! LOL!

Okay...seriously... just because I do not want to be a notch on a bedpost doesn't mean that I want marriage! Let me put this in plain English in regards to what I am looking for.... (1) I WILL NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN...SO I AM NOT LOOKING FOR THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP!!! (2) I will run the gamut from friends with bene's to an exclusive relationship with someone if BOTH parties agree.

I just want to be treated with respect and not used, abused, and spit out all in one evening! I am like a fine wine... you need to enjoy the bouquet of flavors extended over a period of time!

Please just understand that I really want to LIKE and be ATTRACTED to a person I have sex with and in order to do that...you really need to get to know someone for longer than a few minutes!


crazygurl2xx 56F

2/22/2006 4:12 pm

Good post and many of us share your sentiments.


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
2/22/2006 4:19 pm

You have not set your standards too high. Hang on to them and you will find the right person!


bardicman 50M

2/22/2006 4:33 pm

You just have to remain true to what you want and desire Miss. You cannot make a silk purse from a sows ear and thats what you attempt to do if you settle for less that you desire.



I am not dead yet


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/22/2006 4:48 pm

My thoughts exactly!!

Purry {=}

Purry


rm_pingjockey53 63M

2/22/2006 5:18 pm

Wow! You must be getting some strange remarks to your profile for you to sound off! Be patient and the right person will come along. I know that's what I'm hoping for. Having sex is nice, but having a friendship where you can talk and console each other is worth waiting for!


timbo784 52M
124 posts
3/3/2006 10:25 pm

You know you've always had my attn in the utmost way. I realize I might not be exactly what your looking for and I understand. But that wont prevent me from telling you what a wonderful person I think you are. I'm also not afraid too tell you that you exactly what I'm looking for.


rm_AirEvac13 40M

3/8/2006 1:01 pm

This site can be deceptive. It's set up under the confines of sexual activites based on chemistry and attraction.....many come to this site for sexual adventure but do not want to lower themselves and forget the respect part......like some have said, don't dismiss what you want, just know you will find those who dismiss your desires because their desires are selfish.....
Keep in mind what you want and be patient in looking for it


philly61 55M
11 posts
3/22/2006 7:06 pm

Ms, you know I adore you and value you as a friend,I would be highly dissapointed if you altered your profile just to arouse more attention,besides the attention you will draw will come from the seedy underbelly of this site that gives us that take the time to know someone a bad name.please don't perpetuate a problem that is already way out of hand for you ladies..all my best..your moving buddy...phil


AuralGemmaDebit 48M

9/1/2008 10:53 am

Wow! It sounds to me like your a real human being who wants to have more than just a physical contact with someone. Thank you for your honesty. I tend to be the same way and often wonder... what if I lied? Only to understand that the real


AlvinBooth 62M
5096 posts
9/6/2008 2:48 pm

This post is so old that you probably don't even follow it anymore but I'll add my 2 cents anyway. I'm honest in my profile as well and I do get some " interest " but it hardly goes past a couple of e-mails then it's gone. The ones that I have extended contact with live so far away that meeting in person is difficult at best. I'm not flying across the country just to have coffee.
AB

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