40 and missbehavinbadly  

missbehavinbadly 52F
15 posts
8/4/2005 10:36 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

40 and missbehavinbadly

A bit about me to let you know where I'm coming from, I was 40 at the start of the year, 'life begins or so they say'. I'm fit (34b-23-34), fun and hornier than I've ever been.

I'm a single parent to 3 kids to 2 different fathers, meeting my first partner as a virgin at nineteen before splitting up when I was 24. My second partner I met at 27 but ended 7yrs ago when I was 33.

My first partner was 12yrs older than I, being 31 when we met. I was living and working in London as a barmaid, away from home for the first time, I was extremely flattered by the
attention of a customer, as he charmed me into his bed. Not long after he took my virginity he began to take over my life.

He began by moving me in to his flat and then persuading me to give up my job and isolating me from my friends. By the time the violence started, he had me where he wanted me.

When I moved back to Glasgow 5yrs later I finally found the strength to stand up to him.

The next 3 years were spent hating all men, so, I was surprised and delighted when I met the man who was to become my second partner 14 days before Christmas in a nightclub.

He wined and dined me in the run up to the festivities and then booked a romantic New Year break in the Scottish Highlands. This led to me having my FIRST EVER ORGASM on the eve of my 28th birthday.

When he left for pastures new 6yrs later, I felt only contempt. Respect had long been lost as I discovered how spineless an individual he was. Abused by my first partner and betrayed by my second it was easier being single.

At times i resembled a 1woman army, a martyr to my independance. Friends forced me to socialise, stopped me wallowing in self pity, listened when I needed them.

As my self esteem has grown a confident woman has emerged, gone the 19yr old virgin who lay motionless, scared of being branded a slut and beaten. Or the insecure 28yr old, grateful for her first orgasm and her second chance at relationships.

A sexy, attractive and horny woman has emerged, and the last few years have led to some interesting encounters with the opposite sex. For the last 2years I have had what i can only describe as a FUCKBUDDY.

frelander5 54M
1 post
8/5/2005 11:36 pm

at last u got it sorted girl,take it as it CUMS pardon the pun,i am also divorced,and had the odd relationship,but nothing to great,would love to meet u for a chat n drink,poss more.usound n look good babes ......lol

rm_abrown55 59M
29 posts
8/9/2005 4:55 am

may you many more Orgasms

9 posts
8/10/2005 1:30 am

go on u wish u all the best tc xxx

drewzie542 53M
1 post
8/11/2005 6:57 am

hi i,m dru, cool goy lookin for fun times

rm_GoodNHard58 68M
39 posts
8/13/2005 6:00 pm

I've seen more than one female friend or acquaintance go through a similar if not identical situation. I feel an apology to all women for the jerks in the male species is in order! It sounds like you are finally getting to 'stretch your legs'(pardon the pun) a bit and do some things you've been denied too long! Play safe! Play often!!

elginman4two 51M

8/27/2005 1:41 am

every individual is ultimately responsible for most of what goes on in their lives....and should not be unduly controlled or affected by anyone else. They should teach that in schools...instead, most of us have to work it out along the way.
Nice one, missbehavinbadly!! Enjoy

wantingsum15 54M

9/4/2005 12:26 am

Sorry to hear about the way you have been treated, but not all blokes are the same. Hopefully you will find that special person who will treat you the way you should be treated. Take care and good luck.
Stu xx

dream_choa 38M
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10/30/2005 1:10 am

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rm_vincent697 60M
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iwanturkinkysex 46M
18 posts
12/12/2005 4:11 am

I applaud the person you have become. You have managed to become the woman you want to be through all the travesty in your life. If we all had a crystal ball there are many paths in life we wouldn't have travelled and some of us spend the rest of our life regretting, hating, loathing everyone and everything else. You came through the other side. Be proud girl!

rm_magpiejam 67M

1/6/2006 9:04 am

Just roll with the blows,you'll come out of it as a stronger person.
As soon as a guy raises his fists It's time to walk, take heart, we are not all monsters. Good luck with your next adventure.

dancefloorglory 46M

1/8/2006 3:09 pm

I hope all your future fun times with your fuckbuddy somehow make amends for the crappy times in the past. You are not too far away from me so if you're ever up for some fun with someone different for a change, let me know I will be delighted to meet up with you sometime.
Take care,

Andy XX

Sexy6plus 56M
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2/8/2006 8:48 am

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rm_EKHorn 49M

2/26/2007 3:17 pm

May you find plenty of orgasms in future and look out for yourself.
Must admit the fuck buddy is one lucky man

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