mimidni 57F
97 posts
5/30/2006 12:24 am

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Hi all, this is my first and most probably my last blog.

I have a question to ask, are there any genuine men on AdultFriendFinder or are they all liars, cheats and have got something to hide? Maybe its just me, maybe im a magnet for dickheads. Can someone out there give me hope?????

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
5/30/2006 3:45 am

There are lots of genuine men here. Dont let one bad apple or two ruin it for you

Welcome to the blogs

Purry {=}


Smiley433 47M

5/30/2006 10:06 am

Probably one or two out there - good luck!

belfastbound 40F

5/30/2006 10:06 am

Mimi there are a lot of dickheads, wankers etc whatever you want to call them, same for the females, but there are also a lot of genuine lovely caring people on here too. I've met my fair share of the bad kind, but also a couple of the very rare kind too. Don't give up hope. J XXXXXXXXXXXXXX

ladyjim1 86F

5/30/2006 10:07 am

hhhmmmmmmmmm... wonder,s with you .... och feck it.. let hit the rum instead ...


6/1/2006 3:06 am

Mimi welcome to blogland. Haven't got that much experience on AdultFriendFinder and have no idea what it would be like for a female here but would like to assume that there r some nice and genuine guys on here. I have found some nice women on here but also some nut jobs and not some not so nice, guess it's a bit like life in general. Hope you find one of them and if not u can always join lady in a rum keep blogging though it's nice to see people outside of the room.

parkingspacereq 45M

6/2/2006 1:30 pm

of course there are some decent blokes on here, and i reckon you know which ones they are anyay mimi, the ones that chat with you and respect you are the decent ones , not the ones that mess you and everyother woman about
take care and good first blog pls carry on

shar1 55F
606 posts
6/3/2006 3:48 am

Mimi... I agree with BB, there are a few eejits out there, but then there are also some nice guys. You just have to find one that is worthy of you. xxx

mimidni 57F

6/3/2006 5:23 am

Thanks all for taking the time to read and respond to my blog, i dont know how to reply individually lol so ill just do it like this.

Feel a bit better now xxxxx

rm_bhcni 49M

6/4/2006 3:57 pm


I'd agree with BelfastBound that it goes for the women too. It depends what you want as well. If a man is on here looking for some extramarital passion, but is honest about it, where does he sit? That goes the same for the women as well. Like the one that said she was divorced until her hubby appeared...!

AdultFriendFinder has its fair share of all kinds, just like life.

mimidni 57F

6/5/2006 2:30 pm

bhcni, i agree enitely with bb too, in fact i think some of the women are even worse than the men. If someone is that bored with married life that they need to look elsewhere on the sly, then why bother staying married? Maybe im just too old fashioned for this site, but i believed in my marriage vows, even tho my ex aparantly didnt, which is why hes now my ex. And before anyone says that im getting at swinging couples, im not, at least they know what each other is doing. Its the ones who are doing it behind their spouses backs that i have bother with, and if that offends anyone........tough.

suprcunnilingus 56M
212 posts
6/6/2006 2:18 pm

Mimi welcome to blogland,enjot it for what it is fun and you never know you might come to enjoy blogging.

I agree there are a number of eejits out there, but there are some really lovely people too. I have met a number of lovely people of both sexes both in Scotland and Ireland, some I am now very glad to call friends.

Good luck and tread carefully

Supr xxx

IrishKev 40M
1523 posts
6/7/2006 9:12 am

You have to keep posting now that you've started

As for the question i've met a few ladies and a few couples so there must be a few of us who are genuine...and like supr above I now have a few extra friends because of this place

Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
6/16/2006 5:13 pm

Welcome to the land of blogs... there are some right eegits out there...but most are pretty decent and genuine...and I hope this is not your last

Sula xxx

come visit my blog

wickedeasy 66F  
25406 posts
6/18/2006 6:29 am

there are fewer losers in blogville then in the chat rooms. still, they exist and one needs to be careful.

shrugs - who said life was gonna be easy?


PS stay and blog - if nothing else you'll get to meet some great people

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

rm_GIZ4568 43F
8 posts
6/18/2006 9:31 am

I guess I've been lucky hun, I've met 2 of the nicest men I've ever met on here. I know theres bad men and women on here, and I've had my share of idiots. However, have faith hun, there are decent guys out there, and men who understand respect and truth.. I'm lucky that I know some lovely people and nice friends here. You have some good friends here and chat to some lovely people, best to forget the idiots learn from them, but don't let them win.... Dxxxxx was lovely meeting you.. hope to again and chat more next timexx

scruffbug3 49M
3 posts
6/18/2006 10:42 am

me thinks ur right all men are dickheads and b*stards but then thats what were best at those who say different are liers

Jonny_RottenGuy 44M

8/29/2006 5:57 am

no we all liars and cheats....its in our genes....its letting it out of out jeans thats causes the problems

941 posts
9/10/2006 1:31 pm

well mimi i know what u mean cos ive come across a lot of liars n cheats on this site and it has made me reconsider about stayin a member but i have made a lot of friends and im waiting for someone to prove me otherwise about men

handyman24022 50M

9/26/2006 2:28 pm

i hate liars and cheats all part of life !

thetrunk2006 55M
2 posts
10/1/2006 3:41 pm

I`m very new to this but I think I`m one of the good guys. We`re not all bonkers etc. Hope you find true friendship hun. Thetrunk2006

saintrsinner 45F

11/3/2006 1:25 am

bloody hell never thought i jump into a blog thingie lol but anyhow here i am lol... mimi dont give up on the fellas there r a few good ones out there ya just have to wait to see if they come knockin on yr part of the world...... keep on hangin in there love....
on and im sorry if im a liar and a cheat.. but im just the kinda girl who loves the feelin on the gettin ready to go out in meet someone new just for the pure fun of it all, to me anyhow it adds a little spice to wot i have at home, yea a hubby...
but as i say each to there own, wot ever keeps them all happy....

dillon195 42M

2/8/2007 10:46 am

liars and cheats in all walks of life, not just on here,stay chilled and itll all work out,believe in fate as fate is cool and often kind.

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