i am pissed off  

milady_de_winter 43F
938 posts
8/15/2006 4:07 am

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8/26/2006 1:57 am

i am pissed off

Sigh... enough of being a lady...sometimes it really gets to me.

I have said before that i shall not discuss or talk of a certain silly girl on AdultFriendFinder...but i am sick of her lies, tales and behaviour.

This little gutter girl thinks its her right to go around making mayhem here...now at all material times i have been a very sincere and kind friend to her.

I looked after her, i listened to her complaints that she had no friends and that people on AdultFriendFinder were being unkind to her...

i took care of her..she had only RM20-00 in her wallet when we met to go clubbing and i did not make an issue of that..i paid for all the bills- food, drink, cover charge etc..

i looked out for her..when she got into trouble with some men she picked up ( she likes to pick men up so that they pay for her drinks) ..i bailed her out by demanding that we were not following them back and she will be going home with me...and they said i have an "attitude" because i stood up for what i beleived was right

When the same jerks dropped her on the pavement in a drunken stupor- i looked out for her again- i sacrificed my time, effort, energy, used my car to drive her to the 24 hour clinic and then to the hospital at 5.00am...helped wheel her on a wheel chair and take her for X rays and then send her to her "FuBu's" house in some God Forsaken part in KL...i arrived home at 7.30am

The following weekend she complains to me that the same "FuBu" does not want to see her as she is having her menses...so i say "come over and spend time with me"...what does she do..she runs up bills on my platonic friend's account "oh Feed me, i am starving"...then when i take her out that nite to meet another friend...she orders the most expensive food on the menu and keeps on ordering drinks the whole nite...

She complains that my friend is a nasty person ( which he is not)...i think his only fault was that he did not show any interest in her...how could he...she was behaving all hoity toity! ...yet surprisingly she hangs on all nite with him and follows us as we go clubbing because he is paying for her drinks... and in the end, she has the audacity to demand he drop her off at another "FuBu's" house...Such Ingratitude! I was embarrased beyond beleif

Now ...tell me my dear readers..how would you feel if you have done so much for an ungratefull girl like that...well guess what she starts bitching about me and spreads lies and untrue stories about me...or worse when she gives out my hp number to strangers on AdultFriendFinder.

Thus far i have never said anything about her...but i am getting sick and my patience is really wearing thin.

perhaps the world would be a better place had she stayed in the gutter which she came from

Ok enough..i have said what i have said...i have let it out..


GangBangCple 66M/55F

8/15/2006 4:41 am

I would not have even let it get that far,
would have dumped her after the first time.

Some ppl cant be helped

hard?, maybe, but just my experiance :

sinergybolt 56M

8/15/2006 5:04 am

Rediculous how some people behave and they have no respect for anyones time and energy.

rm_2spunkE 40M
52 posts
8/15/2006 5:47 am

i think ur wasting ur time,i mean ur life!these people thrive on people like you.opportunistic elements.just don't keep getting hurt.by the way,i like how you write.

rm_Spices1971 45M
12 posts
8/15/2006 12:35 pm

have been following ur blog and the tiff going between u and the gutter girl
well, at least now u know her true colours. just move on. It is not worth getting all heated up over someone who may not give a damn. take care.

IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/15/2006 1:59 pm


Hey L., Do what is in your best interest, not her's.
Let her figure things out for herself. The only way people learn anything is when they have to do it for themselves.
But don't lose any sleep over this one. It's not worth it.

Btw, I think I know who you're talking about, but I'm not saying anything to anyone.

IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/15/2006 11:39 pm

I posted this quote on my blog awhile back. But it looks like it needs reinstatement.

Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference.

The catfight mentality never gets anywhere. I can only hope things get better for all involved.

wet_pussy4ever 43F
3059 posts
8/16/2006 1:30 am

    Quoting rm_aqish007:
    I can smell it.... well, my advice, dont have to waste ur time for such ungratefull fren. she doesnt sounds like ur frens at all lol. And I think I know her... hehehee
hey dear...wah!!! ur smelling power so strong one ar definately u know who she is take a wild guess


wet_pussy4ever 43F
3059 posts
8/16/2006 1:40 am

    Quoting rm_aqish007:
    I can smell it.... well, my advice, dont have to waste ur time for such ungratefull fren. she doesnt sounds like ur frens at all lol. And I think I know her... hehehee
i know how u feel dear.. we were once in ur shoes... she tends to use people to get wat she wants.... once we invited her clubing.. wat did she say... not a yes or a no bt.. who pays for my bills.. who is taking me there.. how m i going home.. i mean coe on.. we r all grown adults.. we know how to take care of ourselves.. so y can't she.. if she needs sum1 to pay for her drinks.. she bloody well go find a date herself.. which she says she's capable of doing...lol how can u make us (d ladies) pay for u.. we need to take care of ourselves as well...

She c omplaints too much bt does she see it at d other end.. no.. she thinks we all owe her a living.. think again.. she is damn wrong.lol.

i wrotetis piece in her blog bt i think to cover her own ass.. she deleted it off.......

she thinks tat she's miss beauty queen tat looks down on bbw like us.. i heard people saying tat she thinks we r fat & ugly bitches.. tat's y we have no dates... come on.. do i comment or spill out on my dates.. i know about discreet... i dun go telling o thers.. who i date & wat i did on my dates.. wats d point?? bt i guess she was afraid others might read it so she deleted it off... (sorry to blab ou t in here)

Well, i think u r better off on ur own.. dun need to hang on to people like her. waste of ur time & effort She juz takes ur for granted.. neva appreaciate wat we do.. went our wit her couple of times.. & tat's it... here's one thing.. she's actually banned from all our gatherings & other activities... cuz of her own doing... m not afrd to tell it out here.. if she finds out.. gud for her. guess she's feeling it now y she doesn't have frens..

Sowee dear didn't mean to poru out most of d things in ur blog.. bt since it stted gg.. couldn't stop



rm_4it921 61M
1371 posts
8/16/2006 2:54 am

Ok exactly how did you get to meet my ex wife.

Its uncanny, It seems there are more of them out there.

Take care xxx

milady_de_winter 43F

8/16/2006 3:02 am


i suggest before you open your big mouth in the chat room and attack me- Get your facts straight. if she has the guts why did she not appear- Oh BTW- you made a right fool of yourslef that day. LOL

And jealous...lol...look who is talking

remember- the tiff between me and her is between em and her- who are you to get involved in it?

I suggest you look at the facts and not get influenced- enuff people have been burnt by her- don't be the next casuality


rm_trexxx777 40M

8/16/2006 3:14 am


~ well aint that make life more interesting

wetwet65 51F

8/16/2006 5:54 am

Well u know u were lying , and tht the fact, oh ya, whose pic is tht u steal from , tht not ur body


LeninRuntsBurrs 42F

8/16/2006 5:02 pm

and the story never ends if you dont let it end milady. just let it go.

milady_winter 43F

8/16/2006 10:45 pm

lol at Wetwet55- take a reality check- and hmmm such a coward you are to delete my post and even your post

Face the thruth...and if you have nothing better to say i suggest you keep your mouth shut...


wet_pussy4ever 43F
3059 posts
8/17/2006 9:20 pm

milady dear.....

no point arguing wit people who likes to intefere wit others prob. It's juz not worth it I've actually posted sumtg in one of d lil gurls blog & she deleted it well.. Since she did tat.. m sure she has sumtg to hide Same goes to d person who deleted ur comment... If we r open & honest about everything.. y hide it...LOL
Anyways.. have a gr8 weekend hugzzzz



MataKhan 105F

8/18/2006 3:25 pm


MsConservative4U 40F

8/19/2006 5:56 am

My dear Ladies ya all lovely.....spread friendship please......right MamaMata......Sigh too..

Going Where Life Takes ME

milady_de_winter 43F

8/21/2006 2:36 am

thanks for all the responses

i have since moved on.... its ok now...


krsandhu 53F

8/23/2006 9:28 pm

Milady, I can understand how u feel as I have been through the same thing but with a different person who was also a member of passion.com. I will be writing in my blog abt it. Meanwhile, take it easy as such people are not worth getting all worked up abt and spoiling your mood. I know its easier said than done after doing so much for someone, and sometimes I do wish I could teach this woman a lesson. Anyway take care and be happy.

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