Looking in from the "other" side  

mikeymcd 50M
6 posts
4/28/2005 6:30 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Looking in from the "other" side

Lately I have been exploring the bi side of my life. Now that doesnt seem to be so shocking, or even uncommon, yet still i think of myself as "strange, abnormal, weird" because it;s just unheard of for a GAY man , to be bi-curious. The trouble for me is, I must question why is it so against the grain?

To my understanding, being bi-curious simply means that I have a desire to have some type of sexual and/or emotional involvement with members of both sexes. Somehow that domain is ruled by unfortunately stereotypical straight man that the gay world seem to think just need to have to right guy go down on them. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!

I find str8 porn much more enjoyable than the gay, and actually enjoy seeing a guy fill up her honey hole. Even more horny for me is being able to get under both and lick them. MMMMMMM

SO here I am, an outcast of sorts, coming from an already outcast world, roaming just trying to figure out and explore all there is in the incredibly varied and sexual world.
Would love to hear what others have to say about this.

CrazyCoolBiFem 39F
53 posts
4/28/2005 8:41 pm

Mikey~ I know exactly how you feel. I had this very same issue. I was a lesbian until about a year ago. I met a man that changed that~ I had no desire to be with a man until two years ago when I foudn myself aroused by a man~ the thought of a man~ the thought of pleasuring him~ and yet I have not lost my craving for a woman. True the threesome is highly ideal and although it is not what I would say is the thing I want to do all the time~ although my boyfriend loves me for it~ it is something I like to do once in a while. Smiles After much confusion and many bad looks from my gay friends~ a few that I lost because they thought being bisexual or even bi curious at that time was wrong. I thouhgt to myself if they can't love me no matter what then they do not need to be around. There is a lot of prejudice from the gay community but I say since it is something that will nag at you until you figure it out ~ I say just figure it out and have a lot of fun while you are out there! Happy hunting~ although from the looks of it ~ I am sure that you will do well and find out quickly enough~ wink wink


666FuckMehard666 38M
1 post
4/28/2005 8:47 pm

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topekatop2 59M
1 post
5/18/2005 9:44 am

Hey man. You definitely hit a few buttons with me. I can really relate. I am a man. I enjoy sex. I enjoy my body, even if someone else doesn't. I enjoy sex with men (for the most part), but a few years back, I could not help but feel myself needing to experience pleasure with a woman. Lo and behold, I came across a man who wanted me to be in a 3-way with he and his wife. I told him about myself, no guarantees about the outcome (no pun intended), but I went to their place, they welcomed me. Though nervous, They led me to their bedroom, and they proceeded to make love, and said I could join in when I wanted to. I was immediately turned on by just watching, and after about 15 minutes of watching this hot couple, I shimmied out of my clothes, climbed onto the bed, and they both started to give me the pleasure of a lifetime! I feel that there was some kind of answer to all the questions I had in this experience. I've since done it a few more times, I still like men a lot, but, now, I don't rule out the possibility of getting together with women, I just let them know in advance of my preferences. So now, I don't label myself as gay, bi, straight, curious. I am just sexual. I love to explore all aspects of sex, and, even though I'm 47, and have been lucky enough to have lived out most of my fantasies, I know that the future holds even more exciting experiences.
So, there ya go. I think you can relate to this. Take great care, my friend.

explorer33020 53M
1 post
6/2/2005 11:49 am

Hi Mikey-

Yes this does seem to happen in the gay world occasionally. I personally have a great friend (female) that is very hot, sexy as hell, perfect breasts (they cost her) and an insatiable sexual appetite. We love to go to Haulover Beach, get naked and watch for reactions. Twice we have picked up so called straight men and three wayed with them. Very Hot. I personally love the straight swinging scene, most of the couples that I have met are the most generous, non stereotyping, sexually free people. All my sexual desires changed at 40ish. I had sex with several women, and explored the more kinky side of me as well which I am happy to say continues today-though not often enought hence the membership to this site. Anyway, thanks for putting in writing what I have been questioning why this age seems to open us up sexually and allow for experimentation we may not have even considered before. I am sure it is not just us, look how many of the bi guys and straight guys looking to experiment with same sex fun are at this same age...

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