So, what's it like ladies??  

mikewv1967 49M
46 posts
6/3/2006 9:31 am

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10/18/2006 8:53 am

So, what's it like ladies??


I've noticed a pattern that is troubling...at least to me. Maybe I'm alone in this.

If I understand correctly, all the women on AdultFriendFinder have to do is basically post a profile (maybe a pic), sit back and wait for the reposnes to come in...comb through what they decide the like (or not) and go from there.

While the men have to post brilliant profiles (with pics of course) try new and inventive ways to be creative in order to impress the women...who in some cases are getting hundreds of e-mails.

Does that sound about right??

Are there any attractive, agressive women that actively seek out men out there?

So, what's a guy to do?

akron42   
2375 posts
6/3/2006 10:53 am

I would like to think that you don't have to post a brilliant profile, but just be yourself! I know that isn't the way it always works though. Personally, I'm not looking for a relationship, just sex. But I see lots of women that are looking for more. I hope that they can see the real you and value your qualities. Best of luck!


MOfunNOWWOW 55F

6/3/2006 11:07 am

I am with akron...would like to tell you no its not true but basically with the men to women ratio it is! Wish you the sexiest and best of wishes on your desires though sugar! {=}


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


rm_mcphwv 33M

6/3/2006 2:10 pm

I have to agree...I spend a good while every day send out e-mails to potential females and I am lucky if I get 1 or 2 of those back. Its kinda sad, I know for myself...and probably the other poster too...we are good guys...but because there are soo many men, some good, some not on this site we often get overlooked. I wish the females would just take some time to get to know us before throwing us in the trash ben...just my opinion of course.


mikewv1967 replies on 6/4/2006 5:51 am:
You said it brother, couldn't agree more!!

QUEENBEEV 51F  
4204 posts
6/4/2006 3:30 pm

first of all...depends on what youre looking for sweetie...I, myself am looking for the ever elusive "friends with benefits" package...but all the men who mail me seem to want "the one night stand" special...for me...I like a man to want to get to know me a little before he sends me the "lets fuck" email...but if I were into the one time fuck...this would be the place to look if you are a woman...I think there are far too few women to go around...and sorry sweet stuff...but there are some real "winners" on here...and I want to be careful of who I invite into my bed...so...just cause we get lots of emails...does NOT mean we are getting laid daily...some of us are a little more picky than that...wish you luck with your search...if only I were your type...lol...smooches...QueenB

Come on over...let's play in my Castle! The hide and seek is awesome!

RATE...YOURSELF!!


mikewv1967 replies on 6/4/2006 5:59 pm:
Queen (may I call you Queen?),

Absolutely, you bring up some good points. First off, I can't defend the men on here. I know like myself (self promotion) there are some really good guys here on AdultFriendFinder, I know becasue I have been reading blogs and articles and see some really good guys offering really reasonable suggestions and seem to have a good sense of this community.

On the other hand, I know there are alot of dunb-asses that screw it up for the rest of us....keep this in mind ladies that there are good guys here too...don't judge the mass based on dumb-asses.

Secondly, I appreciate your insight into your ground rules (sort of speak), that makes perfect sense. I msyelf have to have a level of comfort going into certain situations as well and will NOT jump into anything without getting to know what they are about and expect UPFRONT...as well as them knowing what I am about and expect UPFRONT.

So, great post and thank for participating.

nymphonow2 47F

10/17/2006 4:41 pm

Hi Mike

I dont know what it is like on your end..but yea it is pretty easy for the ladies on ''sex sites''. I was on one before and i didnt go there very often and when i did i had tons of responses..it creeped me out. lol. I dont agree that men have to do more work,,I like when they put some effort into their profile. I am one who does contact, does actively seek out.. but a profile with little to nothing on it will not interest me. But pics are nice not important to me..as i dont have one on mine either. I want to know someone first. I dont want mine on here. If i just sat here and waited for something to roll in..sure i would get contacts but it is a slim chance they'd be someone i am interested in..so I go out and do the work too.


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