Ladies...Please clarify  

mikewv1967 49M
46 posts
5/24/2006 7:12 pm

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6/7/2006 1:46 pm

Ladies...Please clarify

OK, I've gotten off on rants about the whole not replying to e-mails. Anyone who has read anything of my profile or any prior blogs will attest to that fact...so I will not repeat any of that.

Here is what I would like to know. I chatted with someone who had not replied to any previous e-mails (2 previous). We hit it off pretty well and I wasn't going to necessarily bring up the fact that she had not...but I couldn't help myself. Don’t worry, I was tactful…

She then proceeds to tell me that she can only get so many e-mails a day then doesn’t get any more after that. I told her that I felt better about that and she mentioned that she would have responded.

So, here is what I would like to know.

In my mind, if I have sent you previous e-mails to no avail…how do I know if you are receiving them? Do guys re-send e-mails to those women? In my mind, I’m thinking “Yeah, we seem very compatible on paper and we seem to want the same thing, but the b!tch hasn’t reposnded…so why send yet another one?”.

But the statements made by my fellow chatter, sort of my made me re-think what I was thinking…in a much less negative light.

Do you ladies think that we (real men, who are articulate and thoughtful) should re-send e-mails in case you didn’t get them? Or is that a bad idea?

Come on ladies…we really need your help here.

Thank you in advance


moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
5/24/2006 7:51 pm

No no no no no. Do NOT re-send the same email. Write a new one, please, if you're going to go to the effort of sending again. If you send the same one twice, it looks like a form email you just send to all the chicks.


mikewv1967 replies on 5/24/2006 8:35 pm:
I understand what you are saying...does that mean in your humble opinion then, that a men should re-mail then??

moonlightphoenix 45F
6508 posts
5/25/2006 8:03 am

I don't see anything wrong with re-emailing...once. Anything more that that is just annoying and she doesn't want to answer and you just seem desperate and unable to take a hint.


DepravedNymph 55F

5/30/2006 2:29 pm

As a standard member i can receive as many e-mails as you want to send, however, i am only allowed to respond to a set number per day. The best part is that i can accumulate the ones i don't use. After a couple of successful e-mails on here you might wan to try an alternate source for your contacts. Sorry that's a wee bit vague if i spelled it out any clearer the great and mighty AdultFriendFinder staffers would block this.


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