Piercings  

midora69 54M/40F
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8/28/2006 1:14 pm

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Piercings

My husband has a piercing and I'm not talking about his ear or nose or any other place visible while he has clothing on

His piercing is on the side of his shaft and while he doesn't wear his ring all the time, he occassionally puts it in for me. It's again the smallest amount of pain (see heavy metal blow job blog) that intensifies all of the pleasure when he is inside me. And, he says, it's the same for him.

I haven't been able to get the thought out of my head for the past few days about why people get pierced. Is it the shock factor or the pleasure factor?

Anyone have piercings that could shed some light on the topic? Anyone think about getting a piercing but can't get up the nerve? I know I fall into that category...I'd loved to have my tongue pierced but I can't bring myself to go have it done. Maybe someday...


ShaneLiveLife 50M

8/28/2006 2:11 pm

Your husband's piercing is really strange!
.... I have never seen one like that (and I know a little bit about this subject)
......... I would have thought that it is not very practical or comfortable for him
............... but if you are both happy with it what do I know !? .....

I have a PA:

ShaneLiveLife

I guess my motivation for getting it was to do something wild (I mean I don't have any other crazy features like tatoos etc) without making it obvious to everyone (like an ear piercing etc.).

There was a certain kinkiness and pleasure factor in the beginning but sex with or without the ring is very similar for me and my last partner found it gave her too much stimulation ! (I guess it touched hard to reach places and on a few ocassions caused her to bleed slightly although I don't think that was just the ring that caused this).

I'm not sure I would do it again because it does cause some practical problems (e.g. blow jobs are a bit more tricky plus other problems) but its not a big deal having it ....

.... and it has been known to attract attention in the sauna and some women find it intruiging so what the heck !

With respect to a tongue piercing I'm not an expert but personally I don't find it attractive and there can be complications e.g. damaging nerves, keeping everything sterile (our mouths are full of bacteria unlike for example the penis head that is regularly washed by sterile urine).

I don't know what it is like to have the tongue pierced but believe me, when you have a large diameter needle pushed through the uretha wall you know about it ! (very painful).

Live with passion !


Eros40 53F

8/28/2006 2:25 pm

I have nipples and navel pierced. The navel was an X-mas present from my daughter! Healing time was a real pain in the ass, but it's finally there! I must admit, jewelry does look cute poking out from under a shirt/ over the tops of jeans. My nipples, I had pierced for me. I "redecorated"..hee-hee! I LOVE the nipple piercings... it's a whole new sensation having a lover toy with the nipple jewelery with their tongue!! Hope that helps............E.


PassionKisses4Me 44F

8/28/2006 2:26 pm

I am thinking of getting my nipples pierced but like you I am working up my nerve to do it...I have a good friend who had hers done and she loves it

Becky


~Becky~


midora69 54M/40F

8/28/2006 7:14 pm

    Quoting ShaneLiveLife:
    Your husband's piercing is really strange!
    .... I have never seen one like that (and I know a little bit about this subject)
    ......... I would have thought that it is not very practical or comfortable for him
    ............... but if you are both happy with it what do I know !? .....

    I have a PA:

    ShaneLiveLife

    I guess my motivation for getting it was to do something wild (I mean I don't have any other crazy features like tatoos etc) without making it obvious to everyone (like an ear piercing etc.).

    There was a certain kinkiness and pleasure factor in the beginning but sex with or without the ring is very similar for me and my last partner found it gave her too much stimulation ! (I guess it touched hard to reach places and on a few ocassions caused her to bleed slightly although I don't think that was just the ring that caused this).

    I'm not sure I would do it again because it does cause some practical problems (e.g. blow jobs are a bit more tricky plus other problems) but its not a big deal having it ....

    .... and it has been known to attract attention in the sauna and some women find it intruiging so what the heck !

    With respect to a tongue piercing I'm not an expert but personally I don't find it attractive and there can be complications e.g. damaging nerves, keeping everything sterile (our mouths are full of bacteria unlike for example the penis head that is regularly washed by sterile urine).

    I don't know what it is like to have the tongue pierced but believe me, when you have a large diameter needle pushed through the uretha wall you know about it ! (very painful).
And I find the piercings through the head strange

As far as the tongue piercing...I used to work with this woman who had hers done and when I would talk to her, I found myself drawn to looking at (watching for) the smallest glimpse of metal that I knew was there. I found it very sexy. I know the chances of things going wrong are probably higher than any other piercing but...I find it so hot!


midora69 54M/40F

8/28/2006 7:16 pm

    Quoting Eros40:
    I have nipples and navel pierced. The navel was an X-mas present from my daughter! Healing time was a real pain in the ass, but it's finally there! I must admit, jewelry does look cute poking out from under a shirt/ over the tops of jeans. My nipples, I had pierced for me. I "redecorated"..hee-hee! I LOVE the nipple piercings... it's a whole new sensation having a lover toy with the nipple jewelery with their tongue!! Hope that helps............E.
What a gift that would be

Now you having me thinking about a nipple piercing. Only problem is, I'd probably want to show everyone and some people don't need to see that.


midora69 54M/40F

8/28/2006 7:19 pm

    Quoting PassionKisses4Me:
    I am thinking of getting my nipples pierced but like you I am working up my nerve to do it...I have a good friend who had hers done and she loves it

    Becky

Having the nerve to do something...anything....not just piercings, is such a huge thing. Eventually we'll both get there!


Eros40 53F

8/29/2006 10:26 am

ladies, if getting your nipples pierced....BIG word of advice: ICE THEM FIRST!!!! I'll be the first to admit, my nips are VERY sensitive, and I'd been hearing it was quite painful, so being the wimp that I am... I wanted to numb those bad boys up a bit. I put ice bags in my bra for about 30 min. prior to having them pierced..... didn't feel a thing and they didn't bleed at all..... healing time also went smoother, I think, as no problems with swelling, bleeding, infection (keep them VERY clean!) like I'd been hearing other have....... good luck, and I'm certain you will not regret it!!!!..............E.


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