This is what a girl wants!  

midnightbuterfly 34F
16 posts
1/13/2006 10:41 pm

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This is what a girl wants!

This is what a girl wants...this is for all those guys that aren't sure how to show a woman what's up!


A girl even though she says it's okay that you don't get her flowers....girls love flowers! I'm not huge on flowers myself but it's not really the flowers it's the romantic suggestion behind it!


A girl likes to eat....if you take a girl out and she doesn't eat very looks like she's picking at her's because

(1) she feels uncomfortable around you...but give it time! She'll feel more comfortable sooner!

(2) She's afraid you'll critize how much she eats or how she don't say nothing or stare at her...stay away from that subject!


(3) She really isn't hungry or she already at and just doesn't want to be rude when you invited her to go out and eat with her (take this as a means she wanted to spend time with you!)


When a girl says that she wants to be just friends....that's what she's looking for....but if it becomes more serious don't freak out...that just means she saw potential in you and really enjoyed your company...if you don't feel the same way just let her know....don't try to ignore the will only make things worse! AND DON"T hit on other girls or talk about how hot other girls are hoping she will get the hint...that's just hurtful and childish! and you could of potentially lost an awsome friend!


Don't lie to a girl about your family, career, life girls will find's just one of those things we are able to do! So just be honest in the beginning...if not you obviously know it's something you either need to change in your life or stop do it already instead of lying about it!


AND GUYS....PLEASE if a girl doesn't want to do something rather it's outside or inside of the means no! Don't continue to ask about it...when she's ready....she will let you know she is now willing to try me...the more you try to force the situation on a girl the more stubborn she's going to become about it and either your going to get so annoying she's going to replace you.....or she's going to make you wait for it for a long long long time just to prove a point!


Other than girls are pretty simple to please.....just be yourself! Be honest, loyal, kind, funny, sweet, and a good sense of humor and the ocassional romance (doesn't have to be all the time or it will get old quick!) is a very big work on it if you don't have it down!


And another thing....even if your busy give a girl an occassional ring just to say really shows you care and that your willing to take a lil time out for her...if you can't call a simple email will do as well! Especially if she's been calling you.....2-3 calls to you with no response back...she'll either think you don't want to speak to her anymore (even though it's just your busy) or something is going on that you are hiding!!! And you don't want that to be on your girls won't paint a pretty picture!

other than that! Good luck!

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
1/13/2006 10:48 pm

Amen Sister!

Purry {=}


rm_abie1978 38M
1 post
1/13/2006 10:55 pm

Nicely put, I'll keep it mind. Thx

toyap_ooh03 32F  
5 posts
1/13/2006 11:27 pm

Finally a little dvice thats true and hopefully maybe one or two guys in my little section of the world will read this and know who to approach each situation without screwing everthing up. Thanks girl.

*Ms. Belle*

lifeisablast333 54M

1/19/2006 10:33 pm

There are guys out there that already please stop telling the ones that don' makes it harder on the ones with brains......LOL.....The Redneck

rm_hummv47 55M
1 post
2/7/2006 7:08 am

You are correct in what you say. I have experiecned every situation and wonder if I was right in what I was thinking. I did have a situation where a woman was very down on herself and everytime I told her she was beautiful and sexy she would get so pissed off. i finally quit dating her. Her negative attitude was getting me depressed. I am a hopeless romantic myself. I love telling a woman she is beautiful, sexy, attractive, a good lover and everything she is good at I respond with praise. I even give praise sometimes even when she is not real good at something but her effort is honest and hearing the praise will boost her moral in the future.

MarineGrnt76 40M

2/23/2006 4:05 am

Excellent post. I take it somewhere along the line some guy didn't know the above information when you were with him and it annoyed you.

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