mi_mwpm 51M
1175 posts
4/19/2005 3:26 pm

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Argh! Strike two with playmate #2 since Saturday. Twice we've had everything set up, ready to play, then something happens. She's worth the wait, but wow, is it ever frustrating to have these family issues crop up at the LAST minute. We both knew going into this that family, friends and career would bump uglies with our play time though, so we soldier on.

Trying again for Thursday. Hope things work out this time - I got some licking and photographing to do, dammit!

FrndsWBenefits 53M/52F
56 posts
4/19/2005 4:56 pm

Sorry today's tryst malfunction. But indeed, the culprit could just as easily been your home/work life. Good that this is in the front of your brain.

But! NOW you get to do the annnn-ticccc-ipaaaa-tion thing again - a bittersweet thing that is. But just wait till you see her next - bet you forget about takin' pictures.

mnfun952 102M

4/19/2005 6:36 pm

That's how it goes when you 'play'.. schedules, spouses, kids, etc.... All you can do is cherish the play time you are able to have.

mi_mwpm 51M

4/19/2005 6:52 pm

Not sure she's going to let me forget the photos - I only suggested them, she's the one that's taken the idea and run with it. Think I'll bring the tripod and remote though... don't want to be tied to the camera instead of thoroughly enjoying her.

Apolybear 54M

4/20/2005 3:00 am

Does strike two mean she only gets one more shot? If so, don't be so quick to cast her off. Finding women who don't want a relationship, don't mind you are married, and are good lovers are rare and special ladies. Hang in there.

mi_mwpm 51M

4/20/2005 5:52 am

Oh no John... this isn't baseball. No three strikes and you're out rule here. I'm afraid things will only get tougher over the summer, when her kids are out of school, but maybe they'll go to summer camp?

FrndsWBenefits 53M/52F
56 posts
4/20/2005 5:09 pm

Indeed, summer will make things tougher to get together. Sigh. Three cheers for Summer Camp! Good luck with the photo session (as well as some quality time...).

mi_mwpm 51M

4/22/2005 4:35 pm

I mentioned summer to her today... she hadn't even thought about it. Now comes the brainstorming to figure out how to play early on Thursday mornings when neither residence is an option and hotels don't usually allow 7:30 AM check ins. Might have to check in the night before and hope that neither of us needs to cancel... or, go al fresco.

zenyen 65M

4/22/2005 6:25 pm

Life sure does get in the way of itself sometimes, doesn't it? I have the same problems. One couple I meet with lives 2 1/2 hours away, so that makes it tough in the winter, too. All you can do is keep trying.

FrndsWBenefits 53M/52F
56 posts
4/24/2005 7:36 pm

You know, al fresco rocks! I vote for that!
(Aside from that - I'm sure something will be made clear.)

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