women & marriage.......  

methodman1000 40M
1739 posts
10/19/2005 8:31 am

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women & marriage.......


got this from a friend in my mail 2day....
"My friend just told me she's getting married naturally I'm supposed to be happy for her but I cant find the happiness at all. Her man is a total ASSHOLE and I hate the way he treats her. I guess he must treat her different when I'm not around. I don't know what to say to her she is so excited they have been dating for 2 years but I repeat he's a total dog I hate his controlling attitude, maybe she loves it. I have comfort her many Nights when she's just upset about women calling her house, to women leaving him dirty messages on his cell phone and a whole host of other things.I can go on and on".

Anyhow I don't want to seem like a hater but I do think some women will Seattle for the donkey just to have their day in that wedding dress. My best friend is a very beautiful & successfull . My momma always said you can do bad by yourself . But I think she can do so Much better.



Do you believe some women will settle for the donkey just so they can have their day?

what does marriage mean to you?

caressmewell 53F

10/19/2005 11:20 am

Yes, some women will settle.


Satin_and_lace67 54F

10/20/2005 6:50 am

Different strokes for different blokes. Perhaps he's just a very good lover and this is very satisfying for her.

To me, marriage should happen when you are young, setting out in life, and you intend to have children. And yes, when you decide to get married, it should be with the thought that you intend to grow old with that person.

Your comment about "other" women - they are obviously not completely honest with each other about their sexuality - this could be sorted out by joining a site like we are on - they join as a couple - then you are not two-timing, but having sex with others, together. Or rather, he has not disclosed his sexuality to her.

Yes, women are capable of many things - look at how many young girls there are out there who snag their man just for money.

The excitement of that big day is totally overwhelming for a woman and yes, some women believe that the love will last forever when she gets married. I do, however, believe that the woman is normally totally convinced that she is in love with that man and she marries him - love is blind - she accepts everything in the belief that love will overcome everything.

Do you believe that love and sex go hand in hand? If you are married, do you believe that you can have sex with others and yet still love your wife? Would you allow your wife to have sex with others and would you have a 3-some? All the man needs to do is to be totally open and honest with her.


looking4fun_604 50F
67 posts
10/20/2005 3:44 pm

Do you believe some women will settle for the donkey just so they can have their day?
I believe ALOT of women settle for less than they deserve and then regret it.

what does marriage mean to you?
Marriage to me means both parties giving 110% all of the time, sharing everything together, feeling close enough to be able to tell them ANYTHING, no matter how kinky/strange/bad it may seem to you at the time....a best friend forever.


onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
10/25/2005 5:01 pm

If women didn't settle for the donkey -- wait a second --

a donkey has a different conotation here in the states method

Anyways, if women didn't settle for the...donkey, how many would be going unmarried?

And forget about marriage, should women even date the...donkey, and what if they didn't?

I guess the problem is that most girls are brought up to like the "bad boy." Guess what? He's a jackass!


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