whatever happened...........??  

methodman1000 40M
1739 posts
11/4/2005 4:48 am

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whatever happened...........??

Whatever happened to just meeting and talkin and walkin away?

Why does every meeting have to be a connection?

I went with a friend to have a drink last night(i ghad to settle for a mixture of alcohol and malt drink),a quick nitecap b4 goin home, rough day, exhausting week so far and I just wanted a drink and to chill, unwind.Wanted to see if i can solve more mystery of the women mind(check previous post on mysteries of the women mind,revealed)so i noticed my friend talking to this stunning lady, just for conversation,so after her drink she thanked him for the conversation and got up to leave, he offered her his card and suggested they see each other another time, she told him thatthe conversation was great but she really didnt want his card, but thank you...she left, he followed her out to her car and asked why she didnt want his card and if she did think he wasnt good enough and why, she told him it wasnt anything like that she just wasnt interested. Then she explain quickly that it wasnt nice of him to chase her down and she was feelin harrassed, he backed off and came back into the bar but was visibly bothered.Would it have been better for her to take the card and never call or to give him a bad number and run into him later and have to have that drama. Why cant people just have a conversation and go about their business...Whatever happened to two ships passing and keep goin?

caressmewell 53F

11/4/2005 11:09 am

It sounds to me that your friend could not take "no" for an answer no matter how nicely it was told to him.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

11/4/2005 3:12 pm

Method, I'll wrestle you for caressmewell

methodman1000 40M
1775 posts
11/5/2005 3:39 am

caressmewell-some people dunt want a no for an answer....

mike-let go for a drink and settle this like brothers......

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

11/5/2005 6:34 am

Perhaps when the were talking he felt that she was interested, so times wires get crossed,

If i had of been her i would have taken the card and said thankyou, It would have been a nicer thing to do..

Poor guy.. but maybe on the other hand.. at least he knew were he stood and wasnt living in hope everyday that perhaps she would call....

Guess there are different ways of thinking about things..

LOvely picture btw..

silky xx

caressmewell 53F

11/5/2005 10:01 am

Methodman - then your friend needs to grow up. If he had done to me what he did to this woman I don't know that I would have handled it as gracefully as she did. Like I said in one of my earlier posts, you can't be nice to everyone cause they read more into it than just being polite. You can't force yourself on people.

Let me know who wins...

methodman1000 40M
1775 posts
11/7/2005 5:52 am

chuchotte2-i agree with you,but the truth sometimes is always bitter and thanks for stopping by

silkysmoothlegs3-yeah it not only got crosssed it got burnt..

caressmewell-same things i told him,personally i suspect the drink

MillsShipsGayly 51M

11/10/2005 7:59 am

Method, I wish I had my brother's .. uh .. er .. talents ... damn big bro

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