have you???????  

methodman1000 39M
1739 posts
2/5/2006 10:54 am

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have you???????

For those that are married,in a committed relationship or long term relationship
........have you ever asked the man/woman in your life if he/she is sexually satisfied?if you never asked how do you know if he/she isnt or is satisfied?if they said no they weren't,could you handle that type of truth and would you do all you could to make sure they were?or you let things be

true_red1000 45F

2/5/2006 6:22 pm

I am in a married relationship ( 9 years married) ( 9 years dating before that) And YES I have asked more times than I can count- " Are you happy?" " What can we do to spice it up a little?" I have asked so many questions that I am blue in the face. And I always get the same answer - - " Everyting is great" It's just the way HE wants it.
I am starting to not believe him. How can he be happy when I am not happy. If he were to fianlly say that the truth of the matter is that he is not happy - The weight would be lifted from my shoulders.

caressmewell 53F

2/5/2006 6:25 pm

As a woman married to a man that has no sex drive, I don't need to ask. I will tell you that he has never asked me and he get's upset if the subject of sex life (or lack thereof) is brought up.

oneeroticgal 42M/39F  
207 posts
2/5/2006 6:37 pm

i have posed that question in the past...the answer seems to be yes...but here is something from the other side of the coin...would you give an honest answer if that question was asked of you...


hotNhorny5000 37F

2/6/2006 12:42 am

Everytime I ask hubby ANY question regarding sex, or try to initiate talks about sex (trying different things and such), he gets mad, and we wind up NOT having sex for 2 months. I kid you not. I only get sex from him once every 2-3 weeks as it is (granted, it only lasts 5 minutes at the most) so I have stopped bringing up this subject with him. I know that I for one am not happy, that's why I'm here!

methodman1000 39M
1775 posts
2/6/2006 1:19 am

i really appreciate all your comment-one thing is for sure la k of communication with our partner makes sex or even our sex life a burden....

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/7/2006 4:14 pm

I have asked and Sail is very satisified!

Purry {=}


Allsleeky 35F

2/9/2006 5:33 pm

I have asked and he said he's very satisfied, and if we were to explore more our sexual relationship would be for his and mine benefit.

spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
2/13/2006 11:16 am

Thanks for the lesson!!

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spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
2/13/2006 11:21 am

I can't have a relationship with a man who can't discuss sex. I am always careful how I approach the topic. It generally isn't a good idea to ask sex questions right after sex. My partners have always been satisfied but I get a lotta flack because I don't like to kiss!

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mysteriesofme 44F

2/15/2006 10:15 am

We talk about sex/satisfaction all the time...

discreetsexbudd 45M
1 post
2/27/2006 8:19 pm

I was in a married relationship that I thought was going great,no sex but we were happy together,haha,since I have studied and learned how to please a woman and even my ex says sex is great,let me know if I can help any of you married women out.

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