Worth being loved  

merlion45 50F
549 posts
8/27/2006 9:51 pm

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8/29/2006 3:13 am

Worth being loved

They say good man is worth being loved. But than why do people all the time fall for wrong men and women? Moral qualities of a person of cause mean a lot but when we love one we usually can’t define and give a name to that something special in that person that makes us feel this way. Love is an irrational feeling, we can never predict who will be the next and moreover say if her or she will be finally worth it. Everything would be very nice and simple if we could count all the minuses and the pluses than compare the results and in case there are more minuses say “no, I’m not interested”. We all like and in the end love the people who differ, who are personalities, who have that sparkle in them. And it’s sad but good people are sometimes very dull and boring in communication exactly because they do everything right, they never cross any lines.

If you want people, both men and women, to love you ‒ start training your skills in communication. Be pleasant, nice, easy-going, but not too obstructive, learn to be a good listener, because both women and men would prefer speaking of themselves than listening about all your nice features and talents.

Work on your sense of humor, being slightly ironical is always very attractive.

Try to get rid of the stereotypes and to be democratical in your points of view.

Don’t judge too strictly the defaults and weak points of other people ‒ remember you have yours ones. If you really want to attract a person and maybe even try to make him or her fall in love ‒ you shouldn’t criticize your object even if you know that the person is very tolerant to critics. Compliments will do better. Be attentive and helpful. Be good or try to act good. Never tell all at once about yourself. Be a little bit mysterious but not too mystificating. And look after yourself because first we see an appearance and only than personality.

goodtry 55M
918 posts
8/28/2006 12:21 am

Well said, but how many of us can achieve that. in most cases, once you feel love or assumed love is around, we all go upside down.

merlion45 50F

8/28/2006 9:05 am

I must agree with you, Man.........trully we can't predict Love....sometimes.......we are as a Toy of It.

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