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Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person -- with no thought for our own reward. Real Love is "I care how you feel." Conditional love is "I like how you make me feel."
Real Love creates a powerful bond between people that always leads to genuine happiness. Without Real Love, people can only feel empty, alone, afraid, and angry.
Most of us were loved conditionally, which explains the unhappiness we experience now as adults.
We can all find Real Love as we learn to tell the truth about ourselves to people who are capable of unconditionally accepting and loving us. Such people are called wise men and wise women.
Real Love can be distinguished from conditional love by the absence of disappointment and anger.