People here are so fake!!!  

mepopper2 54F
48 posts
8/14/2006 4:02 pm

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9/5/2006 9:12 pm

People here are so fake!!!

Why is it people on this site are so fake, you would think with the type of site this is people would be more open and honest, If your not into someone after you meet them then just say that, why do we go through the games...My honesty at times over how I feel about people and situations is taken very wrong...But if I dont like you and dont think we click then I will say wheather its what you want to hear or not, how about you? are you honest about it,or do you let them walk away thinking things are great then never speak to them again??Ive talked with many on this site that has had this problem and I had it recently....this just takes away from the sexual game and makes it no fun

Trivium11 28M

8/14/2006 4:34 pm

I'm guessing it's mainly men you've seen who are acting fake.

AdultFriendFinder not a fake on here - All honest and open!!

TrueTxGtlman 53M

8/14/2006 4:36 pm

Here is no different than in real life. Some people just want to be accepted and others just like to play games. Nice blog I will stop by from time to time and say hey.


goodguysneedit2 56M

8/14/2006 4:40 pm

Bloggers are generally more honest from my experience, but ABSOLUTLEY there are tons of fakes, hiders, game players,liars..and outright fake profiles designed for personal information theft.

Yes... once I realize an attempted connection is not for me --(usually through the course of many emails with a woman who won't open up about anything at all, won't send any kind of pic, and won't even tell me a first name, berates all men including me, treats me suspiciously, nervously, and drives me up a freakin' wall..but still insists she's "all that"--- yes.. I finally let her know I'm done and SHE'S BLOCKED! LOL

Mr_sweetness 44M
2599 posts
8/14/2006 4:43 pm

I agree with you there are so many fake ass people on this site and alot that i thought were friends but to find out they are as phoney as a 3 dollar bill...

Peace, cause there is to much violence and blood shed in the world!!

Love, cause there is to much hate in the world!!

Happiness, cause it feels good and life is to short to be mean and unhappy all the time!!

indycoupleforcam 55M/32F

8/14/2006 5:00 pm

If I'm not interested, I tell them right away so they don't start to imagine different! Yes there are a lot of fakes online but you start to get "net smart."

mepopper2 54F

8/15/2006 2:16 am

Thank you for the comments, Im glad to know there are people here that know what Im talking about,,I guess i should attempt this net smart...I have this thing about always giving the benifit of the doult and trusting...its really bad to know I have to change some what the person I am in life, because of the stupid shit that happens from this site........Believe me when I say the trusting days are over and real life has stepped in...People will have to prove them selves to me. before I take the next step..Man I sound bitter, Im really not just feel I needed a reality check...cheers to all and thanks once again.

MrNuttz05 49M

8/21/2006 12:03 pm

Hang in there... Yours will come your way. You are a beauty & they will come, trust me!

138 posts
9/3/2006 11:01 pm

What happens to so many people here as well as in the real world,is
life gets in the way.I don't want to believe everyone starts out to deliberately want to deceive others.It starts when we are afraid to stand behind our core beliefs.Of course spammers,call-girls and hooks for other web sites excluded from my core statement.

22 posts
9/5/2006 4:32 pm

While it's not an absolute rule, I think you'll find most of the flakes, fakes and phonies are standard members, because they have nothing invested in AdultFriendFinder except a little time.

Note: I didn't say or refer to all standard members.

They'll sign on for 'free' and let someone else pay their way as far as E-mail contact, including asking for photos just to jerk people around. Then, if they don't 'meet' or hook up with somebody in 2-3 weeks.....they just never sign on again. This failure to sign on, can even apply if they're for 'real', due to lack of 'connecting'.

Now of course, AdultFriendFinder still carries these non- participating members, that haven't signed on in months or over a year, because it makes them look 'good' to be able to claim almost 24 million 'active' members. Some of these 24 million, are as 'active' as my dead grandmother.

mepopper2 54F

9/5/2006 9:12 pm

Oh I do agree with what your saying, and I know alot of the people are not even on anymore,, but the standard memeber thing is not all people, I go back and forth between gold and standard, but Ive never been a fake, and treat people the same either way...I think its just some people feel a need to be this way....

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