I don't think I can do this  

meltinsnowman 36M
20 posts
1/28/2006 11:48 am

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I don't think I can do this

As much as I would like to have my share of sexual fun and I enjoy posing naked for photos and such, I don't think I can really do what I'm trying to do here. I feel like I'm completely betraying my own heart and desire of what I want. I want a real relationship with a real commitment to one another, and I don't want to meet that person on a site such as this. So why am I on here other than my own bouts of horniness? The craving of sex does not satisfy my heart. I mean none of the women on here are people that I really would want to be with in a serious relationship, and I have to consider if that's the case then how can I expect a real woman not on this site to want to be with me if I'm doing this secretly... because I do not beleive in hiding things from people, especially those that I love. I feel as though I'm trying to straddle myself over a fence; but I must pick a side to be on... and if I follow my heart instead of my penis... I can't do this anymore.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
1/28/2006 12:11 pm

Good luck to you!

Purry {=}


sexymermaid6956 62F
26390 posts
1/28/2006 12:22 pm

well i feel that there are many people on here that are mature and looking for a mate as well..in my travells i have met beautiful people who have fallen in love with oneanother and that is great.It does happen..now on the other hand are you saying good girls are not on this sight and those typs are not welcome as a life partener..mm sounds like a double standard my friend,,your saying to me look i am a nice guy but i am here cause i am horny.lol well my friend look around there are many types of people..lonley ones looking for a long lasting relationships..intelligent people who write wonderful stories and not necissarily about sex either..about life...you can not judge a boook by its cover but by its heart and soul..i would rethink your words and do some meditation on what and how you said this..

sweet man come out of your cave as we wemen have almost caught up with you men and we decide who we want as friends and as sex toys and no that does not make us dirty girls who you cant take home to mother...lol..but human beings with the same needs and wants as you..ok..there i hope you get in life what you are looking for..but you need a brain ajustment..here getting my wrench to tighten that loos nut..

well good girls are on this sight too and if you meet one of your high standadrs then good i will wish you well...we are not pervy or just horney but just humans after all...


Seduce my mind and my body

crazygurl2xx 56F

1/28/2006 12:42 pm

I know exactly how you feel!

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
1/28/2006 12:46 pm

You would be surprised at some of the wonderful people you can meet on here. Doesnt hurt to try.

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
1/28/2006 12:50 pm

this site is not just for sex,a lot of good kind women are looking for long term meaningful relationships,its not all dic pics and wild sex,plus friendship is all so sounght and found on here

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Shelly_Marie 43F

1/28/2006 12:59 pm

well, it is not impossible to find people on here that want a relationship. some of the people here might not be open minded to the people here because they are here, on a 'sex' personals site and like you said...wouldnt want anything to do with them. but it is possible though...just have to find others that are more open minded to it. it is ok to be here, but i bet once you find someone for an LTR then you probably wouldnt hang around here much anymore anyway, right? lol

frogger1995 39F

1/28/2006 1:49 pm

While it's refreshing to hear a man say such things...I think you sell women on this site far too short. All of us (men and women) are normal people...surprisingly so. By discounting all women you meet here as less than worthy, you may miss out on a wonderful opportunity. She may fulfill both your quest for lust and a life mate.

conroy33 65M
1 post
1/28/2006 2:06 pm

do what your heart tells ,you ,things will work out just fine for you then

F22a 32M

1/28/2006 2:13 pm

why not do both....thats why humans are balanced out to be create equally.

behappy24u 51M

1/28/2006 2:30 pm

Friendship first; then whatever happens, happens. Its better to look at each person as an individual: (Be it on this site or in general) and base your opinion on friendship first. Many good people in this world, better to try and get to know them than to just move forward without. Good luck to you DQ

rm_nettttie 49F
1 post
1/28/2006 2:48 pm

you look very comfortable in your skin!! the word hypocrit reads between the lines.

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
1/28/2006 2:49 pm

Having a long term relationship is possible here. Love and lust do intertwine...

LeEnchantress 54F

1/28/2006 3:02 pm

Well.. i feel like that too.. original poster.. it is because though.. most of the guys here really DON'T want a long term relationship. they want short term sex, fuck buddies. FWB.. call it what you will..
As a result i've not really met anyone to meet my needs as i will not lower my standards.. and why should I? i can find a one night stand at any bar or nightclub. i'm nice enough looking to do that...
Maybe it's just the area you are in that you are striking out!.. It seems my area has a shortage of single eligible guys to start off with..
Also. i've never done anything on this site that i'd be ashamed to tell a "nice" guy.. Other people are okay with showing their genitals.. and that is their thing. but i've always felt that if i did that sort of thing.. and met a great guy. i'd have a hard time telling him. yeah.. long time ago i was on a sex site and used to show my tits to strangers on the web.. Lot of guys have asked me to do that. but it goes back to the same thing. You gotta stick to your guns..
If you look too. you will see there are a WHOLE lot of women on here to do want LTRs!! Many.... and if you guys want to call all of us whores simply because we are on this website. well.. you might be missing alot of intelligent, decent, trustworthy, nice, attractive women you'd probably be delighted to have as a life partner or long term romantic interest.
I realized a long time ago. while i may not want to share the fact i'm on this site with my next door neighbor.. i see nothign wrong with people having sex drives.. If we didnt', we'd all be mighty unhappy.
If the sites disturbs you that much (and i have to admit there are aspects about this site that disturb me too).. you might want to try to find a tamer one. like friend finder or -SCREENED-.
Good luck

Thangz 44F

1/28/2006 3:26 pm

When I started as a member of this site I wasnt aware of how wonderfully decadent it really can be. I am like you though and prefer a real relationship and would like someone to hold in my arms on a regular basis and get to know and build a lasting comfort level with.

Repeatedly by men I was told I was in the wrong place and I used to think that. looking at it now ... no im not. on here are people just like anywhere else. Here they just tend to be a bit freer in stating what they want and need sexually. Not always a bad thing.

Good Luck to you my friend......

kitz6 59F

1/28/2006 3:47 pm

"I mean none of the women on here are people that I really would want to be with in a serious relationship," What a disrespectful lout you are! Just because a lady likes, enjoys, and wants sex and has a desire that matches your own - you think she's unworthy to be your lifemate? Go away child and grow the hell up.

meltinsnowman 36M

1/28/2006 6:50 pm

    Quoting kitz6:
    "I mean none of the women on here are people that I really would want to be with in a serious relationship," What a disrespectful lout you are! Just because a lady likes, enjoys, and wants sex and has a desire that matches your own - you think she's unworthy to be your lifemate? Go away child and grow the hell up.
The fact that you failed to quote the entire context of the statement is quite childish and disrespectful in of itself. You might try reading the sentence after the sentence you qouted to understand the proper context as any grown mature-adult ought to do.

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