wondering y? and who i guess?  

mel_darlin 50
40 posts
8/14/2005 4:42 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

wondering y? and who i guess?

So I was shopping in north end walmart this Sun am and heard 2 guys behind me talking - one said -" I'd like to help her spread the word!"

SO I guess i am wondering what the point of that was - obviously i was recognized from here - so either say hi or say nothing but i gotta say - not sure i like what happened today - makes me wanna pull all my stuff

should I? Is this all really worth it?

PappaBear1957 59M

8/15/2005 12:03 pm

I could well imagine that would make you feel uncomfortable. Shame on the guys that would make an ignorant comment such as that in public. I can only say that if I were to recognize you in a public place that I would be courageous enough to say hello and introduce myself.

lovingfun50 66M

8/15/2005 6:16 pm

I agree with PappaBear1957 fully. They were simply jerks. I know I would politely introduce myself to you no matter where we were to meet.

hydrax2 44M

8/15/2005 11:37 pm

hey hun, don't worry too much about it, because if you do it'll just make you parinoid, and you'll think EVERYONE is looking at you-whispering. My advice is to just let it slide, remind yourslef that 'hey, i'm only around here once, there is no "re-do" here!' Don't let a cpl of small minded losers ruin your life experiences.

take care and if ya want to chat more, fire off a msg to me, otherwise have fun!! (god I wish I ran into you at Walmart, I'd be looking for a dark/unlit corner lol!! or maybe a chg room!)
ltr !

mel_darlin 50

8/16/2005 11:51 pm

Hey thanks guys and u r absolutely correct and I should have been clearer about my feelings - sorry. Im not upset they recognized me - thats happened before - its how sleezy they were about it.
IF u recognize me and u like my pics - say hi mel - thanks - apreciate your pics - ( not if my kids r with me please) but don't do that - stand behind me and make suggestive remarks and not have the balls to introduce yourself. See this is my big complaint - don't say something stupid or use a line on me - im smarter than that - say hi tell me your name - tell me u just had to tell me ... anything just dont be a tool

rm_loose14u 53M
1 post
8/17/2005 12:36 am

Hey Mel don't let a couple of losers spoil this great site for you. Most people on here show respect for each other. Yes you do get the odd idiot that isn't mature enough to realize what they are saying or how it might effect someones feelings. Keep your head up high put it behind you. Your pictures are great would love to see more, if I seen you out and about, sure would introduce myself and offer to take you for a beverage if you had time.

rm_misatim 49M

8/17/2005 8:50 am

hi mel well just forget the 2 poor fellows they were probably still virgins and whack off every night take care MEL

Jon_Q 49M

8/19/2005 4:28 pm

It is truly disappointing that some people have no class! It is obvious that you have made an impression though. And when I see you, I'll say hi.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

8/19/2005 5:23 pm

That their sleaziness bothers you says a lot of positive things about your character.

We all know the type of 'boy'... big talker behind the screen, women should adore them, etc etc etc ... Like someone else said, don't let the losers pull you down.

By the way, nice to meet you, mel.

Raven491 55M
2 posts
8/20/2005 11:59 am

Mel if I saw you I'd introduce myself and .................. Im certain you'd want to spend the whole day with me. If your up to it drop me a line, how are you at puzzles? ureallywant2know and I should add its hotout here. Take care Ravin

heraldo69 57M
25 posts
8/28/2005 1:59 pm

I think they should of said hello and said who the were or just kept the stupped comment to them selfs , shame on them the should grow up and be adults!!! they could of just admired you and kept on going if nothing inteligent to say. Mel if i saw and recognized you i would gladly say hello !! Please stay your AdultFriendFinder friend.

rm_stev_4fun 58M

8/31/2005 4:40 am

I agree that if they recognized you from somewhere on line and were going to say anything at all they should have introduced themselves and tried to have a real conversation with you not just make a remark like that. I hope this doesn't cause you to pull your ad cause you are a very hot and lovely woman to look at.

rm_shortdude73 43M

8/31/2005 3:17 pm

Please don't go from the site you are amazing and I would love to run into at walmart with no kids present.

Luv ya


Lover_and_Lady 42M/46F
25 posts
8/31/2005 7:53 pm

personally I don't think i would ever introduce myself, but I may make a comment in a chat or group like this that I saw you.

discretion is nice... I know I've seen some people online in person but make no comments whatsoever regardless of the situation... just not cool... stalkers are everywhere and people who like you would respect you enough not to say anything without prior consent.

The guys were obviously jerks, and if you know who they are online you should block them if possible.

"okay people be safe out there." Hill Street Blues

samsonite9696hi 59M
64 posts
9/11/2005 6:27 am

Dont you go anywhere darling,If I seen that gorgous bod I would invite you for a drink and introduce myself or ask hows your day going sexy,but only if you are alone.

rm_Skcouple4U2 56M/46F
1 post
9/26/2005 7:51 am

Mel Please don't let an infantile boy upset you, it's sad that there are so many people out there who are like this but lifes to short to be worried about them. Have a great day and Please, Please stay.

pjman4u 56M

1/21/2006 5:52 am

Mel, if I recognized you would have come up to you and said hi, and see if you liked what you saw

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