companion - ...???  

mcsusieg 49F
149 posts
12/7/2005 1:27 pm

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companion - ...???

I so enjoy the company of men … the company of my friends ‒ the titillation of sexual people … if I receive one more phone call or email …that says “hey let me know if you want to have a drink this week.” I will scream. What happened to a man calling …”hey would you like to meet for dinner Wednesday?” I will pay my own way ‒ any man who I have expressed interest in i say up from I am a bit shy about starting things with men.

Soo ‒ are you interested in having someone to share a drink after work with on Tuesday’s? Someone who if you can create some heat would be your partner ‒ most Wednesday nights? … Are you looking for a partner to catch a movie with occasionally? Maybe if the heat can be turned up someone to play with at and after that movie? Yes a DVD and a meal are wonderful ‒ but I enjoy life and doing things and having a companion.

I know there are plenty of people ‒ well more often than not MEN ‒ that are into sexual fun without the socializing and while I totally respect that ‒ I hope that if you contact me ‒ you understand I am looking for friendships and social fun.

I have things in the back of my mind things I want to try ‒ or have done just once and want to do again ‒ but finding someone(s) that we can develop some trust with can be difficult ‒ finding partners that are willing to earn and care about the trust you place in them (physically) is difficult.

I stepped off the net for a month or so ‒ work, family ‒ a smidge of difficulty ‒ and here I am …again wondering why it is I could get laid 3 times on Saturday ‒ but have no one to ask to go with me to a DU game and then get fun and wild and passionate for 3, 4 or 5 hours ‒


Hey man ‒ lets face it ‒ NO ONE likes to be a number, to be listed, to be treated like a hole to poke ‒ so if you have done these things ‒ please steer clear ‒ but let me know I do know a couple of women that will gladly take a night a week and be satisfied with that routine poke. No socializing necessary with them. See we are all different.

johninco 61M

1/1/2006 4:03 pm

A pretty lady who likes DU hockey? Oh, please, dear, check my profile and send me an e-mail! I do indeed prefer to know a lady reasonably well before I decide whether to make the effort to get to know her in a biblical sense.

Any lady who likes hockey has an inside track to me!

hunter543212000 53M
3 posts
12/13/2005 10:56 am

Glad to see you back. Its good to read your blog. Your blog is always very insightful,honest and interesting to read. There are those of us who do enjoy attending a sporting event, dinner in a nice restraunt, or other social activities. I know this may be a surprise (given the behavior of some), but some of us actually enjoy having a good conversation and want to get to know someone before jumping in bed with someone! Glad to see you back!

col975 49M  
326 posts
12/10/2005 8:08 pm

I just want to say I have read your blog twice and even thought you do not update it a bunch, when you do it is profound.

I think they reasons that you get men just asking sex without doing the other activites is the nature of the room. Being a 'adult' room I think that guys feel it is ok just to ask for sex. Kinda the same think as 'cock' pics. It is the lure to have sex. If you have been in the chat rooms here a number of guys opening line will be "lets fuck". I would not say that on a date.

I dont have a solution but just my obversations. And keep on writing the great blogs, I enjoy reading them

rm_ogtrader 41M
1 post
12/9/2005 7:57 am

Well I am looking for what you have described someone to go out on the town go to a event and keep it social. Maybe I am the exception when it comes to men but I want to know someone first! And you really cannot do that just by having a drink on the couch before eading into what ever. Now I do believe in staying in from time to time but it is nice to get out and have fu with someone.

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