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Why it's good to include cyber in your sexual diet!!!
Why it's good to include cyber in your sexual diet!!!
I often see profiles that say "I've tried it, but it's just not the same" and "No way. I only want skin on skin" when your asked the question... Have you ever had cybersex? But cyber can be a great complication to any sex life... here's how and why.
#1: Great for last minute changes! Let's say you had plans but something came up and your not going to be able to go. But your still horny! Just go online and ask one of your friends if they'd be interested in doing it with you!
#2: Great for a quickie! You come home for lunch, eat lunch and have about 30 minutes left. That may not be enough time for someone to come over. Just go online, find someone who's also online at that time, and ask them to help ya out!
#3: Great for Discretion! You can have online friends that never see your face, some may even be ok with never seeing what you look like!
#4: Easy to get rid of! In a real meeting, if they end up nothing like their picture or extremely annoying, depending on the situation you may still be stuck with them for a while, ie. if they drove or you have food sitting in front of you. If an online buddy turns out ugly or gets annoying, tell him you have to go and either log out or go invisible!
#5: Great for introduction! Let's be honest, there are a lot of weird people out there. Someone may have the perfect profile and the perfect picture but end up not being anything like you expected. You can spend some time getting to know them through chat, see some pictures, there's still a chance they'll be weird in person, but you can ask them the important questions before they know anything about you!
#6: No Commitment Necessary! So you get someone who says they want something casual and then after you've talked to them for a while they start wanting you to commit or get jealous when you don't answer your phone because they think you were out with someone else (which you PROBABLY were). The less they know about you the less likely this will happen, and if they are just reading black text on a white background, how much could they know?! Then see #5 when/if your ready to take that next step.
#7: Keep your Phone # Private! I understand it's nice not to type and nice to be able to hear their voice, but they can find out a lot about you from your phone number and if you don't want them to know that information, or call you while your at work... or call you 15 times a day... just chat with them. Then if you don't want to talk to them, just keep yourself invisible to them. More than likely your family, friends, job and bill collectors also have that phone number, and you don't want to have to mess with monitoring phone calls, you've got people to see!
#8: It's Convenient! Send erotic e-mails back and forth with them... You can send and read e-mails when is convenient for you, you both don't have to be online at the same time. But you really don't have to make special plans to chat with someone online. You could sit down at your computer to check your e-mail, turn on your instant messenger, grab the first person you see available in chat (or two or three), chat with them while you read your e-mail, then tell them you have to go when your done reading your e-mail! No planning, no getting ready, no nothing!
#9: It's cheaper! So you want to sleep with this hottie you met online, but you're not ready for them to see where you live, and you are low on funds for a hotel. chatting, webcam, e-mail, all only cost the price of your internet provider (and phone if you are using dialup).
#10: Less Awkardness! So you've decided you want to try someone of a different race or the same sex. But if you've never experienced this before, it CAN be a little awkward. So get to know them through chat and e-mail, masterbate with them a few times on webcam. Take into consideration #6, #4 and #3... and if your ready for the next step, consider #5!
#11: No Expectations! You go out on a date with every intention of sleeping with them that night. But then you see them, or hear them, or get a stomach ache... If you gave them any impression they might be getting lucky, it's going to be a night blower to tell them otherwise. And let's face it, even if you didn't say they were getting lucky, the fact that y'all are meeting face to face the idea has to be in the back of your minds. With cyber there are no expectations... You can chat to just chat, if y'all both bring up webcams or pictures, that's great, but it's easy to blow off those things if you aren't interested in chat.
#12: Say *ANYTHING*! So you had this great time with someone last night and did some really freaky stuff you'd normally never do in a million years... You can't tell your friends because they would judge you... you can't tell your other "dates" cause they'd be jealous... so go to one of the people you have in chat that don't know anything about you and tell them all your dirty tales! And make sure that person is me. Ahem.
In Conclusion... Of course cyber isn't the same as skin on skin... I would be an idiot for suggesting that. But there are times that cyber can be a great compliment to any other kind of sex life. You don't have to choose one over the other... if your a sexual person, take advantage of all of them! Trust me... It *can* be good!
4/27/2006 4:24 pm
Totally agree with you hon. Heck if it wasn't for my "on line sex life" i would be having no sex at all! Well put. |
4/28/2006 5:58 am
Oops, I said "complication"... too funny. HOpefully everyone gets the idea. |