One down, how many left?  

maybebaby33 45M/45F
55 posts
9/2/2005 8:16 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

One down, how many left?

Hello all. We are an educated couple with a nasty streak. I (the guy) have been thinking about swinging for years, but she is the one who took the first steps, by joining two sites. On the other site, we met a couple who we later had our first swap experience with. While we had fun, we found there was little real attraction there, and the sex was poor.

I doubt if we will visit with them again, but my wife has been playing solo with a man that does a good bit for her, and as a result, our sex life has vastly improved. She has given me permission to do the same, but I am finding it dificult to find a woman who, like my wife and I, just want sex.

We have had a great time so far, and the woman from the other couple did swallow (actually sucked the cum right out of me), but my confidence is not good right now. I wonder if I will ever get a chance to play alone...

rm_cpl4fun1232 40M/37F

9/2/2005 9:54 pm

That is wonderful that you guys share so much hopfully you can find
more experinces together as well as alone whatever works now a days
any little thing to keep a relationship fresh is the key.

I'm jealous getting sucked right out of you

snowbirdhoney 53F
1 post
9/2/2005 10:11 pm

Hi, Just read your blog. Well, same thing happened with us. We have had sex with a couple of couples. It was my hubbies idea but I got into it when we went to a swingers club. I had one good and one so-so experience. Hubby had two very good experiences. Since then we decided not to swing anymore. We decided to go solo and I have had plenty of men wanting to go out with me and my beautiful handsome hubby hasn't had any luck. Maybe, he is too shy. His thing is a good size about 8" and he knows how to use it so I don't know what his problem is. He just wants sex too. Maybe there are plenty of men who just want sex and women tend to want relationships and friendships. Especially if they are single or divorced. Well, good luck and keep at it. As for us we just take it one day at a time and if it happens it happens.........EasySnowBird

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

9/3/2005 8:18 pm

Hey maybe, it's just numbers. There are a helluva lot more men that just want sex than women, especially on this site. But they are out there. You just have to beat the bushes (lol) a little harder. All your misses has to do is pick from the crowd (gather). You, on the other hand, have to hunt.. Patience, persistence, and a bit of the lowering of the standards (sorry I said it), and you'll be there.


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