Maybe's Way: or how to treat a lady  

maybebaby33 45M/45F
55 posts
9/18/2005 10:39 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Maybe's Way: or how to treat a lady

I am writing this post at 1:00 AM Eastern time for two reasons. First, my latest installment of erotic fiction has been up for several hours and has not had one hit. Where are you, all my loyal readers? I know you have been waiting for this episode. There is just one more in this series, so get caught up and ready for the grand finale.

Second, I have just returned from my second meeting with my new friend. I want to give all the guys out there a little advice. Some of you already know this.

I have seen, over and over again on this site, guys complaining that they can't find a woman to play around with. The women all complain that most of us men are stingy and only want to get a nut.

Now, I may not know much about "the scene", as I am married and this is only the second woman I have ever had sex with, but my feedback from these two women has always been positive. Why? Because I put their needs, wants, and pleasure before mine. I am a "giving" person; concerned with their emotions, their desires, and what they want from a sexual partner. If you are only here to get off, and don't really care about your partner(s), then you are missing half of the experience.

The bottom line is simple: take care of them and they will take care of you.

Take it slow. Pleasure your partner. Give her an orgasm, or two, or three, or more, before you even think about yours. And then, when it's over, don't roll over and fall asleep. Don't get up, grab your clothes and run. Talk to your lover. Talk to them about your lives, both together and separately. Be a friend and confidant.

She is more than just a vagina with legs, she is a human being. Respect her.

anchcpl4fun 40M/44F

9/19/2005 2:05 pm

ok....i agree with pleasing your partner, on both sides. hubby and I are in total agreement and do a bang up job of it. But when it comes to others....ok the one, two or three orgasms are lovely, but please just get your clothes and get out, the cab fair is on the dresser....hehehe, im such a guy!

MisterPriapus 56M
6980 posts
9/20/2005 2:32 am


Oooo! NICE Blogs! So you now wanna see mine? Weeeell, OK...


I'm outta here for work in a few, but I'll be back to explore your... Blog! Yeah, THAT'S it! later!


PS: That's just a joke- please refer to # 27 in my Listing to Starboard: A Hundred Some Things(!)


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



beewulf9 38M

9/21/2005 9:31 pm

I like that you suggest that it is about her.... complaints I have heard is there are times that she wants to make it about me. It comes back to your last point, it is about sharing and allowing both to be your companion as vice versa, or another way of putting it is by listening and responding.

Become a member to create a blog