What do some of you men think with........When it comes to making a women feel good, really good.  

maximizeyou 45F
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1/20/2006 9:27 am

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What do some of you men think with........When it comes to making a women feel good, really good.

You may think we don't want you to pull any freaky, surprises on us in the sack, but Women love that type of thing......That is why I love to make love to women, because sometimes Men do not get it.........

redmustang91 57M  
8576 posts
1/20/2006 10:47 am

A penis can be unpredictable and that is enough surprises for most guys. you can always suggest some nice new activities... Guys can be very cooperative when motivated.

rm_sensualjonxx 56M
1 post
1/20/2006 12:18 pm

Hi, in reply to your question, may I suggest that it takes two, whatever he sex to make things happen.

I believe the mind plays a major part of of both parties getting total satisfaction and making each other feel really good.

Its a litle bit the same for the guys, not all, I admit but we also want to be titillated, both physical and mentally, is that the same for a woman?

To mentally connect, knowing that you want to test each others boundries can be very exciting....

Some woman are very sensual and adventurous and some are not, just like us guys, so open diecussions and being on the same wavelength, i would imagine plays an important role, in relation to your question.

Thank you and regards,

StillLearn69 72M

1/20/2006 12:19 pm

Us guys tend to think with our little head instead of our big one. Look for the few of us who try hard to connect with our partner and do what they enjoy...not just satisfy ourselves.

junglejim47172 56M

1/20/2006 12:23 pm

I feel most women are afraid to look like a slut or whore and won't eather ask or just start doing. I think most guys are afraid of losing a good thing and wonder if they misunderstood. Communication is a key element, then worry about turning your (male or female) parter off.

Stamina_Plus100 48M
1 post
1/20/2006 12:49 pm

To make a woman feel good,... is from my point of view the whole point of getting together. With every partner that I had, my goal was to make sure that they had the most pleasure with me so that they would keep coming back for more. Ultimate pleasure is all about timing, both arriving at a point where you are ready to enjoy love making. Sometimes you get there fast and other times it is a slow build up. Most importantly, there has to be some connection on an unspoken level. When you meet someone for the first time, you already have a pretty good feeling about whether you can get it on. Other times, people can grow on you, a seed of desire is grown and eventually you hit it off. There are no hard and fast rules, it is always played by ear. At the end of the day, ones ability to communicate verbally and non verbally will lead to the greatest pleasures as you find out what turns each other on.

On a more conscious level, you can program yourself to enjoy all sorts of activities. I remember when I got my first blow job. It didnt turn me on at all. I had never fantasised about blowjobs while I masturbated, so when it happened for real I realy wanted to keep on fucking instead. So the point is that we get the most pleasure from doing the things that we fantasise about, especially while masturbating.

I fantasised about making love while maturbating most of my life. I would bring myself to the point of orgasm but never go over the peak and come. Eventually I learnt to have the beautiful feeling of the point prior to orgasm for hours and hours at a time. So when I hooked up with a lover, I reproduced the same thing. That meant fucking for hours without coming. During that time I could concentrate on my partners orgasms, while enjoying the whole sensation as well.

I especially enjoyed teasing the clitoris in the same way that I teased the head of my penis. I would bring my partner close to the peak of orgasm and then let her subside a little and then bring her up again. This could easily go on for hours. When she came it was a awesome.

I loved every moment of it.

zx9racer 43M

1/20/2006 1:02 pm

Being freaky works well for me.. A man will never know what his women likes or dislikes if he does not try. I have been with some girls that I have tried a few freaky things and ya they loved it..

fantasylover_05 62M

1/20/2006 1:11 pm

This "cuts both ways"..... not that I have by any means been with very many women.... but I have yet to be with one that will just commence or initiate or even suggest anything "freaky"....

Maybe I have just not been with the right women???

Though your point is well taken.. thank you!! I agree.. communication is key.... if you wish to be surprised and tested and limits pushed... openly express that and I for one would welcome that as I would welcome a woman to surprise and push my limits as well...

LeEnchantress 54F

1/21/2006 8:26 am

What exactly are you considering Freaky Or Kinky is my first questioin.'
Wearing some exotic costume, food play... light bondage... licking or touching in some unusual place... someone define this for me..
Also whoever said communication is the key.. has hit the nail on the head.
Unless you are on the same wavelength sexually automatically to start with.. and this has happened to me but it's infrequent, your man is not going to know what you like unless you tell him!
So this is not the time to be shy about your likes and dislikes. .I think though so many people don't even wait nowadays to get to know your lover before you become intimate, it's difficult cuz you are telling your inner most desires to a relative stranger.
some people are just naturally shy to talk about sex talk.
I agree.. you want someone who's willing to take the time to bring you to new heights passion-wise, not just be getting himself off.
I don't think most guys are really like this. .but guys also don't seem to realize that often it takes the girl alot longer than her male partner to get off either. So they get frustrated and in turn, sort of lay this head trip on his female partner that she's not responding fast enuf.
But.. back to the subject.. maybe what you would like of a "freaky" nature is best discussed out of the bedroom, no? that way it would be less pressure and you definitely have something to look forward to when you do go to bed again!
Stamina you sound like a wonderful lover.. You'd be a shoe-in for tantra sex...
I've had a few lovers like you that lasted for hours.. it was wonderful.

maximizeyou 45F

1/23/2006 8:08 am

Thank you all for the comment, All of you made me understand a little bit more. Thanks

rm_RF_MN_WI_88 39M

1/23/2006 4:20 pm

Hi. Great topic....always fun to talk with friends of the opposite sex about this sort of thing. All I know is that probably 4 out of 5 chicks I've been with, after we get comfortable around each other and such, each one LOVED to have something unexpected come up...be it me calling them a name for no reason, spanking, hair pulling, hell, one time I even ran out of the bedroom and downstairs and pretended someone was here...once she came down, I grabbed her, threw her on the dining room table, and went to town...she loved it and didn't realize that the sliding door's drapes were a tad bit open and people could've watched if they caught us. haha. Now for the other chicks that didn't like it, well, at least then I knew they weren't someone I wanted to hang out with anymore. lol. Anyways, I think that surprises of all types, be it in the bedroom or other places, can really heighten the mood/moment and make things enjoyable for all. Good stuff.

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