Hello, I'm new to the service, and would love some feedback  

masterchef11566 48M
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6/24/2006 8:11 pm

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6/30/2006 8:14 pm

Hello, I'm new to the service, and would love some feedback

To all who have come to check out my blog:

I'm brand new to the service and would love to get some feedback on what the best ways are for meeting people here. I like sex a lot, but haven't found an nsa partner who wants to the same.

Is it hard to do here or do you need to look like a male model in order to get the ladies attention?

Looking forward to hearing from you.


Steel_Legs 58M/F

6/24/2006 10:27 pm


#1 - Post an accurate picture that includes your face. It's best if the photo shows you involved in an activity that you enjoy. Nude or semi nude photos can be included in your profile, but your main pic should be a face pic.

#2 - Describe yourself honestly. Don't make yourself out to be something you're not, (either positively, or negatively), just be real. VERY IMPORTANT - If you are married, say so - there are thousands of women looking for sex with married men. It is also much less likely that your wife will receive a phone call from a woman who knows you are married and has chosen to be with a married man for sex.

#3 - Get into the chat rooms in your area and start getting your name out there. Go to local meet and greets, (they are usually advertised, but you can ask about them in chat too). At the M&G's you will have a chance to actually meet some of the people you have chatted with.

#4 - If you think you need to look like a male model to get laid, you're probably right. On the other hand, if you look like Quasimoto and know you're absolutely the best fuck on the planet, then you're most likely going to get more pussy than than you can handle.

#5 - Get out there and have fun, this is about meeting like minded people and having a great time, doing all sorts of things, including sex.

Good luck to you,



6/24/2006 10:32 pm

Well, here are a few suggestions I have:
1. In your profile, you use the standard verbiage that AdultFriendFinder provides. There is nothing in it that really says anything about you. Women want to know who you are. Plus, you don't really list a whole lot about the type of woman you want. Based on your profile, a woman couldn't tell what physical traits you like or dislike in a woman. Do you like docile women? Aggressive women? Intelligent women?...etc...

2. There is no picture. Post something and not a dick pic. Have a dick pic available if a woman asks for it, but don't have it out there as one of the first things that are viewed. If you don't want to show your face, then that's fine. However, women like to have some idea of what you look like when they view your profile. Again, have a fac pic available for when it's asked for.
3. Join some online groups...start chatting in those groups and make some friends.
4. Start a blog if you like to write. People like to read blogs and the more you blog, the more exposure you get.

Anyhow, hope this helps. Good luck to you darlin'.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

6/24/2006 11:37 pm


I took a look at your profile - its excellent - no problem there.

You are a gold member - be sure to allow standard members to contact you (most women are standard members).

YOUR NEED A PICTURE (don't use just a cock photo). Most people do searches that exclude profiles without a picture.

Before you send a wink or put someone on the hotlist, check to see if they have a blog. If they do, provide a comment on their blog for a week or so to get "exposure." Then, follow-up with the wink and later the e-mail.

As long term strategy, use the blogs for exposure. By reading and commenting on blogs, thousands of people will see your picture. For example, on average, over 1,200 people will read each blog I write. If you place a comment on my blog and 10 other fairly popular blogs... well you do the math. (Note, if you pick the super popular blogs - those with 100 comments, you won't be noticed because there are so many people commenting).

Check out some blogs to see what people write about, their styles, and how they use their blogs to showcase their personalities. You are invited to check out my blog site (be sure to leave a comment so I know you visited).

Welcome to Blogland and Good Luck,
Lady Bambi

SmallTightKitty2 105F

6/29/2006 7:31 am

Hi ChefSteve, I also check out your profile....too bad we live so far apart!! The first three comments were the best advice and all I can say is that I agree with them totally. Welcome to blogland and it's crazy family. You have a friend here also. ~STKitty

masterchef11566 replies on 6/30/2006 8:17 pm:
Hi Smalltightkitty2!

Thanks for posting your comment. I updated my profile earlier this week with a photo, video, and audio introductions. What else do you think I need in order to get some more ladies taking a peek at what I have to offer?

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