It's been 2 weeks...  

marriednhorny67 49M
8 posts
3/12/2006 7:44 pm

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It's been 2 weeks...

OK, it's been 2 weeks now and I'm having fun searching and reading all the profiles. I've had a few women send me emails, but they all direct to a pay website. The few that seemed legit I'm waiting to hear back from. I did get 2 "not interested" one because I'm married the other didn't give a reason. Oh well, her lose.

I don't think I'm being too picky - I'm just looking for someone that wants to get together occassionally for a good time. No committments, no strings attached. I'm reasonably good looking with an average body (could stand to loose a few lbs like most guys).

I'll keep checking and trying for now, but if this doesn't work eventually I probably bag this online stuff and just try meeting someone the old fashioned way - I'll pay them (haha, not really)

Anyway if anyone is out there that's interested please contact me.

rm_Thrantor2 44M/47F
283 posts
3/12/2006 10:54 pm

What's boring about your married life? It couldn't be spiced up?

*grin* There is no need to pay anyone. I'm sure you'll find someone. Would you be looking for a longer term situation with a sequence of discrete encounters? Or would you be looking for more of a one night stand something to remember?

And I'm assuming that you are hiding this from your wife?

marriednhorny67 49M
2 posts
3/14/2006 8:00 pm

What's boring - let's see. NO SEX!!!
I love my wife but the sparks just aren't there anymore.
More lacking from her than me. Thanks for asking.
Yes, I am hiding this from her. I'm not sure what I'm looking for, I'm definitely not interested in men (no offense) Strickly something with a female. I guess starting out with a one-night stand and see what happens??
The "paying" comment was meant to be sarcastic.

rm_Thrantor2 44M/47F
283 posts
3/15/2006 9:19 pm

*grin* No offense taken. We're only cute to those that like us.

It's a weird case... Lack of sex drive. My fiance has it as well. It's definately hard to deal with sometimes.

Is she depressed? Does she feel like she isn't sexy anymore? Has she gained weight recently? When was the last time you got her flowers? Is there a special way she likes to be handled? Has she perhaps found someone else? Do you still try for sex or have you "given up?"

It's a tough situation and I know it. But things can work out and get better. We're working on that ourselves right now.

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