What's up with the guys on here?  

marissathecoed 31F
25 posts
7/26/2006 9:24 am

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7/28/2006 6:33 am

What's up with the guys on here?

I've received like 100 messages, and countless network invites from a number of guys on this site, and let me say that for the most part, they don't know how to talk to a girl.
I mean honestly do they really think that telling me they want to cum in my ass crack or that they eat pussy like a seasoned lesbo is going to make me want to hook up with them?
Hello, girls don't want to hear that shit. I can't believe most guys can't come up with something clever or original to say, other than I want you to sit on my face so I can shove my tongue up your pussy or hey want to see how big my dick is?
And then they have the nerve, the fucking nerve, to give me attitude when I don't respond to them.
For real, what girl wants to be talked to that way?
After reading these messages I can see why there are so many lonely guys on this planet. They don't know how to approach a girl. Just because I told you all that I like to fuck it does not mean that I don't want to be talked to nicely. A contrast? Maybe, but who cares ... talk nicely to me and you'll get some where.
And that is of course why I often go back to my girls ... they know how to talk to me, and they know how to do other things that a guy for some reason just can't get. Look I like dick, lots of it, but if you guys can't talk nicely I'll just stick to girls, and couples cuz at least one part of the dynamic will know how to treat a lady. And treating me right, even if I'm a self-described whore, is important. A little respect will get you a long way.
So fellas if you see me out on Varrick Street in Utica or out and about in the Valley wearing my white wife-beater tank top with cigarette jeans, carrying my Gucci bag and wearing my closed toe black heels, don't come up to me and say I want to cover you in my cum, say something nice and maybe, just maybe you will be able to cover me in your white, hot cum.
That is of course if a cute girl doesn't walk by.

rm_biintrnton 59M

7/26/2006 10:43 am

give em shit girl

k1ss1000 47M/36F

7/26/2006 10:44 am

hi!, well i am often asked to be on guy's networks, IM NOT INTERESTED. i already have a man so all i want is a woman! any way the guys are pushy i agree but the girls dont put out much at all (well not as far as web cam goes). you have a great ass so im not surprised blokes fall 4 u, or girls for that matter......

rm_Blufin007 66M
66 posts
7/26/2006 10:51 am

U go girl, you're right. Most of the men don't know how to talk to
a lady, know matter what she does, she still a lady. I myself always
try to be a gentleman weather I score or not. Stick to your guns like
you have. Good luck.

nonamecowboy2055 45M

7/26/2006 10:53 am

i guess that you just found all the assholes on this site.not all guys are jerks.

XJackinyourBoxX 42M

7/26/2006 11:05 am

I've never really gotten anywhere on with a woman on AdultFriendFinder doing anything other than being a little silly, or just being honest and complimentary about something I've read in their profile, or something that caught my eye in their photo.
I'd look at your profile and see that not only are you adventurous, but you have a great sense of humor.

Some people just don't get that this isn't that unlike the real world. You still have to work a little for it and most women want some kind of connection before any intimacy happens.

boobluvr88 39M
2 posts
7/26/2006 12:19 pm

I think there's a lot of reasons why it goes on so much on here. The site is advertised to guys like, "just join and 1,000s of women will want to have sex with you". Stupid that guys fall for it? Yes, but that's how it's presented.

A lot of guys on here are geeks who don't know how to talk to women in real life either, and it's easy to send an email. Be glad they are too shy to say stuff like that in person .

There are also many MANY fake/spam female accounts on here, and as a guy responding to those profiles, it gets frustrating really quickly. I can see how a guy would get really annoyed if they get no response. It does not justify it, but that's the reason .

As a guy you have to be pushy on here because there is tons of competition. You get 100 messages? Some guy has to figure out how to stand out from that crowd. Too bad they pick being stupid or mean instead of funny (check out my profile ).

Anyway, there's no excuse for guys being dumb, but at least now you have some reasons why they are . You also have to remember that after looking at your pics, the blood is no longer in their brain .

buddhamike 106M
7006 posts
7/26/2006 12:21 pm

Most guys think with the wrong head. It's embarrassing, but that's just how it is.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

7/26/2006 1:46 pm

"I wouldn't want to belong to a country club that would take me."

Bob wants Jane but Jane wants Rick who would have nothing to do with Jane but eyes Marissa...

Grants law: no matter who you have, you want that greener pasture
(Hugh Grant and Elizabeth Hurley)

Once a few weeks pass, the truly desperate will leave you alone ...

67coyboy 49M  
494 posts
7/26/2006 11:02 pm

a truly beautiful bottom!
smack smack

askme4cock 39M

7/27/2006 7:55 am

Unfortunately this has been the problem for women ever since this site began, which I don't know but have been a member on and off for over 5 years.

Defending the male of the species on this score, each woman on this site does respond to different approaches and there are plenty that like to talk diry straight away. Lets face it, this is an adult sex site where for a lot of people on here all they want is a partner for pleasure.

That approach is personally not the way I talk to women but must say it does work on some and I may use it very occasionally if a woman declines a few messages or mails. Next time I see them online I might try the direct approach on her and as she wont remember who I am, due to the amount of messages and mails she receives. May respond to this and have found on a few occasions that its successful.

Now being in complete agreement with this post and that most men on here are pathetic to say the least, its no wonder that so many women are turning the other way, which is fine with me. Just means that the chances I get to enjoy FFM more often due to women I meet being bi, are increased.

Who am I to complain, let the guys continue to act like jerks and I will continue to treat women the way they should be treated, resulting in more fun for me.

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