Why is it so hard  

rm_marc44054 63M
1061 posts
7/15/2005 6:52 am
Why is it so hard

Why is it so hard to forget past loves
why is it so hard to sleep at night.
Why is "it" so hard in the morning? noon? Night?
Why is it so hard to find that someone special we are all looking for?
Why is life so hard on the good, well meaning people.
Why do nice people always seem to finish last or settle for less than they deserve.

naked4ucum4me 52M
18 posts
7/17/2005 7:32 pm

Hey Marc
Interesting thoughts and the meanings in them are deep indeed. I dont profess to hold any answers but as you must well know the most difficult time to find "love" is when activly searching it out. We end up trying too hard, fumbling over our own feelings and thoughts and forget that in the end love will find its way to us always.
I do hope you can find peace with the past and when love does find you it will be grand.
Sometimes I swear its a guy thing we meet the right lady and self destruct or we cover over what we didnt want to see for way to long and just end up suffering in the end.
All the best in your seach for answers to questions none of us like asking.

sweetprimebaby6 51F

7/24/2005 5:25 pm

very well put naked,cheeer up marc your true love is right around the corner and one dat it will reveal itself keep the faith baby.

ingenue29 41F

7/29/2005 9:12 am

TLH..trust love honesty and patience are key!
both must give 100% not,
50/50 thats half put in.
dont be who they want you to be.
be who you want to be.
as for all your questions.......
because most people think love is suppose to hurt........so we hang on to the pain.if we let go and move on. does mean we never loved in the first place? NO.
if you are not happy noone can make you happy.
love is a feeling. it feels good.......REMEMBER THAT.
PS everyone has a different defintion of love.

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