the first experiances  

magichands01540 53M/49F
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8/19/2006 12:32 am

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8/19/2006 7:48 am

the first experiances

Writing a blog on the experiences of being new to these life style choices will be an interesting experience. Over the years my wife and had discussed various sexual fantasies, so we finally decided to see if we could make them happen. Deb had fulfilled a fantasy of a threesome for me a few times with a couple of her friends. However she never wanted her fantasy until she felt comfortable with her weight. Well she went on the Aruba diet plan and lost 75 pounds and went from a fat unhappy housewife to a beautiful sex kitten. Now she has decided that she wants to play.

I will let you guys in a little secret, woman do not see a penis as a magic wand. It is amazing how many cock shots as main pictures there are at this site. Use us as an example, when we went searching for the man to become Deb’s friend and fantasy fulfillment. We automatically excluded anyone that had a cock as their main picture. I have also discussed this in a few chat rooms with other woman, and 99 out of 100 agreed that they would much rather see the man’s face or chest shot to interest them. That they, like us, automatically excluded anyone showing a cock as the best feature they have.

Deb finally had her fantasy and it is tough to say who enjoyed it more, Deb or I. We meet a thoroughly enjoyable guy. He is everything a woman could want good looking, all muscle as Deb put, as well she said, a great butt. He is a great dancer and highly intelligent, all in all the ultimate fantasy for her. One of the interesting sidelights was how an amazing lover she is. When she is giving me head I never get to see her in action, my eye balls are rolling in the back of my head. It was fun watching her do that to someone else. It was even more fun the next morning as she relived the night in her dreams and woke up so horny, it blew my mind. Then she got to go for an encore and that night blew me away even more. She still has a hard time understanding what I get out of it, as she plays more with her friend then with me during the threesome. She just does not understand first seeing her that happy is a giant turn on for me. Secondly, afterwards the sex is incredible and lasts for hours. Guys I strongly suggest you find your wife a fantasy guy that is actually worth the fantasy. She will strongly reward that behavior.

I am though beginning to wonder if anyone but the single guys are for real on the site. Or maybe it’s me. I get a wink or an email from someone with a very hot wife, my interest is immediately piqued. I show Deb the people’s picture and she tells whether to answer it positively or not. I have a feeling I am in the same boat with most guys that are married to woman much better looking then they are. We keep trying to share and the other guys wife looks at our picture and says thanks but no thanks. They are looking for the guy I hooked up my wife with, not a reprise of their husband, as much as they love us. I am also amazed on how few people answer their emails. I mean what it would take to take a few minitues to say thanks but no thanks to those that write you. Unless of course you ask specifically for a particular group not to contact you.

WE started this adventure to find Deb her fantasy friend with benefits and have accomplished that. What we would really like to find now is a couple that likes to dance and play. Well the hunt is on and it could be a fun one, even if we don’t find what we are looking for.

Hydragenias 56F

8/19/2006 3:39 am

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