Unconditional Affection!  

macker1965 60M/42F
851 posts
3/29/2006 12:36 pm

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Unconditional Affection!

Have you ever just watched two people, how they interact, touch each other?

I remember once being in a bar in Galway, watching a European Cup Final and watching this young couple. He was totally engrossed in the football and she was totally engrossed with him. As he watched the match she played with his hair, his neck, he ears but he was completly oblivious to her attentions. She was very pretty and while I was interested in the football I remember thinking if I were him there would have been no choice. The Football, or, make love to a beautifull woman? Make love, for me anyway.

So was out recently at another function, formal event, and I noticed this couple and again she was just playing with his hair and rubbing his neck. For some reason the thought of someone just touching me, playing with my hair, rubbing my neck or generally showing me affection in public is a real turn-on. But it's not just sexual. Unconditional affection, especially in public can often be quite rare; but can be so sensual.

So for me, what turns me on, is someone who can show affection, unconditionally, without fear of rejection and without conditions attaching. What I really mean is, if someone only ever says "I love you too" it usually means their just responding, reacting and not prepared to make an unconditional commitment.

Sorry; I'm waffling, I know. Just going through one of those moments where I'm contemplating what must be the pure joy of experiencing true love. I know what you're saying, maybe there's no such thing; but remember this is my blog, and I'm a Dreamer.

lol Macker

HBowt2 58F

3/29/2006 3:05 pm

dreaming away here too......

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
3/29/2006 5:03 pm

Dear Sweet Dreamer,
Take it from another dreamer...me...that I love it when my man shows me that kind of affection in public. And I love it when I play with his hair, or rub his neck....and I can tell that whatever he is doing is now taking second place to the feelings that I'm giving him. Keep dreaming......it will happen!

hugs4uagain 39F

3/30/2006 1:22 pm

dream away hunni i do it all the time!

hugs unconditionally from hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

mm0206 68F
7767 posts
4/1/2006 8:17 am

dreams are what goals are built on ....

Never stop dreaming Macker......


southrnpeach333 50F

4/1/2006 3:41 pm

i love those little physical affections in public, makes me feel special and adored. my problem is i am not good at doing the same thing. i need to work on it.

jjsunshines 58F
20 posts
5/5/2006 11:11 am

Yes I have seen this....and I love public affection meself....but my problem ..I have noone to publicly be affectionate with... I too continue to dream.....

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