Secondhand News!  

macker1965 60M/42F
851 posts
7/23/2006 3:23 pm

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7/26/2006 11:07 pm

Secondhand News!

You ever been judged on the say-so of someone else?

Have you ever judged someone based on someone else's opinion?

Do you make your own mind up?

Do you give someone the benefit of the doubt or take the word of a friend who might have their own agenda?

Ever get the feeling when you're talking to someone that they have this pre-conceived idea of you based on someone else's opinion?

When that happens to me it disappoints me!

I'm not so much worried about the fact that someone has misjudged me, based on someone else's opinions!

What disappoints me is that I am attracted to someone who for some reason doesn't seem to trust their own judgement!

I am what I am and I know what I am, warts and all! I don't try to hide the warts so if you ask me I tell you. If you want to know about me, ask me, not someon else who thinks, based on some brief encounter, they might know me.

Did any of you guys ever feel like this?


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
7/24/2006 2:23 am

I always try to make up my own mind and form my own opinion about people. I can't say though, that I haven't thought about something some one has said about a person before I met them. It is hard in this world sometimes.

Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
7/24/2006 4:34 am

I think we should form our own opinions of people...what one person thinks is a lot different from what everyone else thinks

Sula xxx

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mm0206 68F
7767 posts
7/25/2006 8:29 am

on line there is only so much that one can surmise about another......I know you are a sensitive person and that is what draws so many to you Macker.

and it could also scare those that are unable to deal with such openness... only time can prove the truth of a relationship...seems like I said that before.

I wish only the very best for you.

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