Feeling Sorry for myself!  

macker1965 60M/42F
851 posts
4/7/2006 11:37 pm

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5/5/2006 11:08 am

Feeling Sorry for myself!

Last post was about Feeling Abandoned. Since writing it I've realised how selfish I've probably been and have to admit thought about deleting that post.

Sometimes when people don't want to talk or communicate it's for a very good reason; maybe even a painful reason.

So Macker has learnt a lesson (yes another lesson; you'd think I'd have learnt them all by now!).

Don't jump to conclusions; give people (especially someone you hold dear) the benefit of the doubt and be patient.

O.k. probably three lessons in there but I like getting value for money from my lessons!!

lol Macker

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
4/8/2006 7:11 am

Those are three good lessons Macker....but hard ones to put into practice when we are feeling like we are the one being left out, or pushed away. I've been guilty of pushing away my own loved ones...thinking that I was protecting them somehow and "handling" it on my own. I didn't realize how hurt it made them until I was on the receiving end of that stick. Your a good guy macker.....trust your heart here.

mm0206 68F
7767 posts
4/15/2006 3:59 pm

Sometims lessons have to be repeated.

sorta like practicing for a recital.....

and macker you need to be cared for too.
we all need to be made to feel special and loved.


jjsunshines 58F
20 posts
5/5/2006 10:52 am

I can find no reason....and remain hopeful that someday....somehow...someway...that the one I hold very dear will communicate ....not to explain or give reasons or excuses.....just to simply say goodbye....and it was nice to have met you.... I truly continue to feel blessed that this person came into me life... it is like reading a book...and you dont finish the last chapter...ye always wonder about the end....what happened.....well I do anyways...is why I always complete me readings.... why no matter what I would communicate me feelings to the very end.... but this is only me...I am knowing this all to well...

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