Body or/and Mind?  

macker1965 60M/42F
851 posts
1/29/2006 3:21 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Body or/and Mind?


So you like my body?

So you could eat me?

So the sex is good?

But then what will we talk about?

Does it matter?

Is a relationship all about sex and nothing else?

Or are we looking for a relationship?

Even if we're not looking for a relationship does it matter if there's no meeting of minds? no connection apart from the physical level?

Notches on a Bed Post? Conquests?

Don't get me wrong I love sex. I want sex. But I also want to connect with the person I'm with. Not sure if that means I'm a freak.

Macker

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

1/29/2006 5:40 pm

notches sounds about right
seems to be what ppl want alright


hugs_4_u2 39F

1/30/2006 3:31 pm

i think there needs to be a connection to hunni!!

hugs from hugs xxxx


rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
1/31/2006 8:18 pm

So you like my body?
what's not to like?

So you could eat me?
could...don't know if I would though...don't eat everything that looks or seems to be tasty to me

So the sex is good?
what does this word *good* indicate? clarity is necessary for Goddess to answer this broadly. What sex where?
"the" sex meaning what sex? Did we have sex? yikes! Was I there?


But then what will we talk about?
On which day of the week?

Does it matter?
yes

Is a relationship all about sex and nothing else?
absolutely not ...some relationships have nothing to do with sex unless you count the lack of sexual interaction as part of the relationship. it is what it is. then again, some relationships are all about sex...people choose how they interact.

Or are we looking for a relationship?
everyone is in SOME KIND OF a relationship with everyone and everything on this planet that is in their world...what kind of a relationship is the question...

Even if we're not looking for a relationship does it matter if there's no meeting of minds? no connection apart from the physical level?

what is the basis for the relationship? how do we serve each other by spending time together. people are always served in some way by being where they are or they would spend their time somewhere else.... I think.

Notches on a Bed Post? Conquests?
for whom? not for me. that would hurt.

Don't get me wrong I love sex. I want sex. But I also want to connect with the person I'm with. Not sure if that means I'm a freak.
you are not a freak. you are a person who wants to connect with another before sharing yourself physcially. you are a person who knows who you are.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


HBowt2 58F

1/31/2006 9:06 pm

No Macker....you're not a freak....it would be easy if it was about notches on a bed post......but how elusive that connection is.....


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