MEN--READ THIS!! (Ladies too, please)  

m1903a3 59M
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4/6/2006 9:18 pm

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4/8/2006 10:04 pm

MEN--READ THIS!! (Ladies too, please)

The other day, I was on the phone with a friend I met on this site. During our conversation, she mentioned that she was "not that great looking". Before my brain could wrap itself around that, we had moved on to other subjects, but after she hung up, I got to thinking about it. She has beautiful dark hair, eyes that can melt a man, very kissable lips that are always wrapped around a smile that could stop a charging rhino, a body with curves in all the right places and not even in the same time zone with overweight, and legs that go on and on until they make an ass of themselves. And she says she's "not that great looking"? I have noticed this trait in other women too. They never see themselves as we men see them. These observations and others have led me to the following...

RULE #1 Men and women think differently (DUH! )

Example. Men are visual creatures. We see a fine rack or a nice pussy, and we go "Yea, she's the one!" but show a dick pic to a woman, and she is usually disgusted. There are always exceptions, but that is the general rule.
Women need to be reinforced and reassured. I don't mean a "nice tits, babe", but genuine appreciation of her.

Be a friend first. Sex may happen, but even if it doesn't, you still have a new friend. Don't send dick pix with your e-mail unless she asks for them. And, if you score, NEVER brag about it. EVER! (I think women have a secret network. What one finds out, they all know soon! )
Think about what you are puting in your e-mail. A simple "Wanna' fuck" will get trashed, probably unread. And, for Gods sake, USE THE SPELL CHECK!

RULE #2 When in doubt, see rule 1

I have done all the things I said not to do, and some with the above mentioned friend. I have also not mentioned her name out of respect for her, but I'm sure she's going to leave a comment. The only reason she is my friend is because she is so kind and was able to see past my stumbling attempts and into the real me. This is experience talking.


4/7/2006 12:18 am

When women get MY age THEY KNOW THEY are GODDESSES! We also know we are not the bestlooking thing around nor worst so we have an inner beauty regardless of our outer beauty that makes us A GODDESS> WE KNOW HOW TO BE KIND AND APPRECIATIVE. WE reach our in our divineness and shine upon all, hoping others will spread that shine as it transforms them, too! {=} I think that's probably what your legs for days "friend on here" meant

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

rm_metalmama69 42F
3878 posts
4/7/2006 6:39 am

I am told all the time how beautiful or hot I am. I just don't see it. I think many women feel the same way, unfortunately. Everyday we have society shoving it's version of the so-called perfect body down our throats and most of us do not fit the pattern. The trick is to be comfortable in your own skin, but it's VERY difficult to do!

m1903a3 59M

4/7/2006 10:02 am

That is exactly what I'm talking about! You are both lovely ladies, and that is how men see you. MO, I can tell you are comfortable in your body, and that is exceptional. And metalmama, I've seen your pictures. You are a babe! This is the way men's brains are wired. We will always see you as more beautiful than you see yourselves. Please know that you are both appreciated.

m1903a3 59M

4/7/2006 1:41 pm

P.S...Ignore society. Society is an idiot. It's all done with surgery and creative camera work and it's all fake, all plastic. If I wanted plastic, I'd buy an inflatable doll.

m1903a3 59M

4/7/2006 6:25 pm

What I said to MOfun and metalmama goes for you too, mzhunny

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