My BIG Question  

lyco_blue 41M
2 posts
9/11/2005 2:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

My BIG Question


Here's my big question...why don't people respond to
my winks. I have been trying this site out for
about a week now and have tried contacting all
different people. I just can't seem to get any
replies. Am I the only person having this problem.

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
9/11/2005 4:06 am

You looking for women?

If so, the answer is probably that women get so many messages that they have to filter and one of the first things that gets ignored is a wink. In this medium, we have to compete and that means looking at a woman's profile, writing a personalised and carefully targetted message and making her feel that you've been prepared to make an effort.

As far as the women are concerned they are spoiled for choice - you really do have to make yourself stand out.

Best of luck to you.


rm_DoubleD61 52M

9/11/2005 7:16 am

They do check your profile out and if they interessted they will contact you. Look at your profile and you'll see they have checked your profile. I also agree with what the other member said about writing a personalised and carefully targetted message and making her feel that you've been prepared to make an effort.
Unfortunately, that can't happen to us if we are standard members. Good luck.


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