luvkitn21 33F
592 posts
2/2/2006 4:25 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I know the title of this blog is very broad, but I just didn't know what to call it. From my sexual experiences before, meaning my ex, guys have never really cared about a woman's needs. I have talked to or read about more and more guys that just aim to please. This is very new to me and I am definitely not complaining, just makes me wish I hadn't wasted my time for so long with someone who didn't care about my wants and needs. If you've read my profile, my fantasy is just being with a guy that makes me feel pure pleasure, and I am definitely getting there.

rm_optavious9 105M

2/2/2006 11:48 pm

Sorry you've had those experiences. Atleast your aware of it now for the future choices you make.

Shutterbug02 63M

2/3/2006 3:17 pm

Sorry to hear this but I don't find it unusual for men to be this way. This why I see alot of married women. Husbands aren't taking care of business at home. You capture the mind and the body will follow. Don't worry keep looking and don't settle for less than what you want out of life.

hot_ark_man101 47M
5 posts
2/4/2006 3:44 pm

It's an age thing too. Young guys have no clue about how much better things can get once you please the lady of the bedroom. You gotta try guys over 25 to get the full effect. Tell him if he wants some then he has to use his tongue to get your engine running...and, don't let him up until your first orgasm of the evening occurs.

Just some thoughts from a guy...

CamCumWithMe 59M

2/5/2006 7:07 am

hot_ark_man101 is right, Hon... us older guys have been around long enough to finally grow up and see that it's really all about sharing... sharing our pleasure while making sure she's just as pleased.

luvasnpsy 52M

2/5/2006 4:46 pm

I love giving pleasure. I guess I'm a bit like you. My on again off again girl friend does not meet my sex drive are sensual needs. I'd like to be there with you now, giving you a very sensual massage.

luvasnpsy 52M

2/5/2006 4:47 pm

I love giving pleasure. I guess I'm a bit like you. My on again off again girl friend does not meet my sex drive or sensual needs. I'd like to be there with you now, giving you a very sensual massage.

luvkitn21 33F

2/6/2006 1:57 pm

Thanks guys, it's nice to know that there are guys out there like you. I knew some existed.

luvkitn21 33F

2/6/2006 11:39 pm

Cuteguy- thank you. I always enjoy reading your posts and you always seem to say exactly the right thing.

rm_CPierce 34M
1 post
2/7/2006 1:19 am

Age isnt always the determining factor though, sometimes you just have to get a guy that doesnt have his head in his arse...I'm 23 and I have always loved giving pleasure, it makes me feel good about myself...especially knowing and seeing how they react to it....long massages, teasing and pleasing are all very good and fun things to age may be a factor in most cases, but you also have to realise that it is on a case by case basis =)

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

2/7/2006 6:12 pm

One thing is for sure like I've said bad relationships teach us what we don't want, and what we do need. As far as sex for me, the better she likes it the better..ohh yeah! The longer I can go..the more orgasms I can get out of her..thats what pleases me.


luvkitn21 33F

2/7/2006 10:39 pm

CPierce- I do agree with you on the age factor as far as taking it case by case. Long massages, teasing, and pleasing are all very good things.
Cowboy- I'm glad you finally responded to me. I've been reading your blogs for a while. Yes you are exactly right on the past relationships. I know exactly what I want and need sexually now, and that's a great feeling. We'll have to talk more about this pleasing factor.
CuteGuy-just wish I had more time to write about everything I think about. Half of the time I get an idea and when I can finally write something I've forgotten what it was lol. I'll work on that.

film20034 31M
5 posts
2/18/2006 7:33 pm

I am sorry about your past experiences. I agree with previous posts to some extent. Maturity in the bedroom has been known to heighten the sex, but it is attention, i think, that is the key to making sex memorable and recurring. You are too beautiful of a woman to be let down by asswipes that only cared about their needs. Be aggressive and you'll get what you want. If you were my girl, it would work on me.

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