I am annoyed.....  

luv2sux696969
(Chrissy G)
40F
14 posts
8/26/2005 12:45 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I am annoyed.....

I have this silly problem I am too trusting and this is a problem because I always get fucked...(i do not mean literally either). I want guys to explain why you pull tricks and lie to women.. Please explain this to me.....Ok let me change my statement to not include all men. It's just it seems like some guys think they can get further by feeding you lines. I am not saying woman are not the same way, but if you tell someone that you want them and only them they out of the blue you are screwing other women left and right and not being entirely truthful to the one you started with shouldn't that person be miffed. I am just trying to find out why honesty is sometimes not given a shot to work...


whatagas 44M

8/26/2005 1:30 pm

I can't explain unless I know the details. Would love to hear about it from you


rm_venture12002 62M
67 posts
8/26/2005 1:35 pm

It's not men.It's humans.You get the same crap from women.Just last weekend my friend told me my standards were too high I should have remarried by now.I told him I've lowered my standanrds so low that all that's left is I want somebody who always tells the truth.It can't be found.I'd rather just keep dating than be with a liar.


Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
8/26/2005 2:06 pm

Oh no you are doing that lumping together of a gender thing and only using trite stereotypes that always drives me crazy. O well if you can't beat them.......women you cannot trust them, always gossiping. Chain them to the kitchen sink, I say, its all they are good for. And why is it when you give them a map? blahblahblah.

Ever consider you may be the author of your own misfortune? Why do you let men get away with lying and cheating and pulling tricks? You have to start hanging out with better men.


rm_diego0702 57M

8/26/2005 2:54 pm

I agree with Venture, its just humans. We all want to be better than we really are.


SirluvsStorms 46M
684 posts
8/26/2005 3:29 pm

We will all seek and want something from someone at some time in our lives its how we deal with the rejection of not getting what we want that shows us how adult we really are..

Very funny Loosetooth.. loved the lumping together part..

Very much agree Venture

Whatagas.. your right without the details we cannot hope to understand the reasoning this male had for coming up with a fabrication of reality.. in other words lieing! LOL maybe he couldnt deal with reality in the first place.. not that I am excusing his behavior.. for I know nothing yet to figure out why a person would do anything.. lol we do alot of things as humans that should not be done..but then again we are all learning and trying to get along in this reality


rm_pacman806 50M
24 posts
8/26/2005 5:07 pm

don't let the mistakes of some turn u against all of the rest of us cause we're not all like that


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
8/26/2005 5:14 pm

I agree, it's not a men thing only. Women lie to men just as much.
But on a more practical level, perhaps every time you find a guy 'pulling a trick on you', see if there's a lesson to be learned from that particular experience. Is it possible that you're making the same mistake?
Still, don't let it get you down- I'm sure you 'll find what you're looking for, eventually. Just brace yourself with a lot of patience.


AmberSolaire 42M

8/26/2005 5:49 pm

The only tricks I pull are magic one.Conjures some flowers out of the air for luv2 wishes her enjoyment in her blogging...........

Then walks through the wall




luv2sux696969
(Chrissy G)
40F

8/27/2005 10:29 am

ok let me change my statement to not include all men. It's just it seems like some guys think they can get further by feeding you lines. I am not saying woman are not the same way, but if you tell someone that you want them and only them they out of the blue you are screwing other women left and right and not being entirely truthful to the one you started with shouldn't that person be miffed. I am just trying to find out why honesty is sometimes not given a shot to work...


rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
8/27/2005 6:55 pm

men lie, women lie..hell my dog lies when he looks at me with thoes innocent brown eyes after I find a favorite pair of shoes chewed beyond recognition.
Sometimes its pathalogical. Mostly its because the lie serves them better than the truth. The only cure for that is (as my gran used to say) 'know who you are dealing with'. Take time to discover what sort of stuff the person you're dealing with is made of. It isnt failsafe...but it is a lil safer.

On the up side...people also tell the truth.


rm_hekker111 51M
6 posts
8/31/2005 8:20 am

if you like to suck mi nice cock please write mi i have mucho milk for you


rm_travel989 46M
10 posts
8/31/2005 10:11 am

The amount that a person lies is directly proportional with how immature they are. Real men don't lie, Real women don't lie. If you are secure in yourself you don't find the need to lie.


CostaPsychGawks 54M/57F

8/31/2005 6:43 pm

HHHMMM Men lying? SAY IT ISN'T SO!!!! Sory, but yes, men lie. females lie also. And like you said, it's mot all men or all ladies. It's just that men are more apt to do it. We are more animalistic than females I think. and YES this is just MY opinion. But some men, like me, took YEARS to finally meet a person I felt at ease with so much that there was no way I could lie to her. Just spilled the ugly truth and it's all good. I told her that even though I love her, I am not going to restrict her from seeing lovers from her past. They are FRIENDS she sometimes has sex with. SO who am I to say she can not see them. I also explained to her that I do enjoy sharing sexual encounters with others, which she was more than happy to agree to. So we have a relationship which started as sex, turned into love, and includes trust. HHHMMM Did I actually find my true love on the internet? DAMN


mrtako 40M

9/1/2005 5:14 pm

ohh, my dear, All I can say is that some men are just immature. They don't know what the really want and think they have to lie to get what they might want. Me personally, I try to always be honest in just about everything i do. Sure I know someone will look at my profile and say something about me not being honest at home... I said just about! So lets put it this way... if its for a short time thing some guys will lie a lot... but when it comes to trying to build lasting relationships, honesty is the best poilciy....

And yes, I'm going for the lasting kind sexy.


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