Looking for consistency.  

luv2sucuoff 39F
69 posts
10/18/2005 9:13 pm

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10/1/2006 2:19 pm

Looking for consistency.

Just wondering if anyone else out there was experiencing a lack of frequency in their sex lives/activities?
Are most of your hook-ups from AdultFriendFinder of the one-night variety? Is it only the chicks who are looking to have an on-going sexual relationship with someone?
Personally speaking - I think getting together more than once a week to fulfill carnal desires isn't a big deal. So long as the lines are clear, and everyone knows where they stand. Does it feel like too much of a commitment to see each other more than once a week/every couple of weeks?
Are you guys just looking to add notches to your belts? While most of us women are looking for our ultimate experience - bearing in mind that usually in order to achieve that, we would require consistent activities with someone who has come to know our bodies well?
I am not looking to add notches on my bed post, but to become friends with unlimited potential and awesome experience. In bed.

rm_BCOttawa 45M

10/20/2005 2:10 pm

Luv2 it's not only the women who want an on-going sexual relationship. At first when I first signed on, I was overwhelmed with how many other people wanted sex as much as I did, and just wanted to jump right in. But now I'm a little hesitant, I would rather have someONE to have sex with or languish the days away stroking, massaging, cuddling, petting, licking and even biting(I read your profile lol). I've had a few onenighters and I don't like them, sure they're fun, but lack depth and intimacy. So you're not alone.
Sincerely P

crazyj9771 31M

11/12/2005 6:52 pm

Sex is great, but it is sooo hard to find someone that likes to do it on a regular bases. I am not asking for 4 or 5 times a day, but it would be nice to get it at least once a week or so. If you want to hook up that would be nice. It's nice to meet new people that are interested in something that you are to.

havefunxoxo 55M  
161 posts
11/17/2005 3:14 am

I agree with you,to reach to that level requre a lot , to get to know the other body well, what make them feel good and where the they like to be kisse or touch,,,,
I don't like the one night stand

AnonymousOne25 38M
14 posts
12/23/2005 1:03 am

Saw this and had to add my two cents. Of course some guys are only looking for a one night thing, others such as myself are looking for more. Hopefully I can find someone on here who shares such a interest and others.
Guess we'll see...

iwanteaseu 50F
15 posts
12/27/2005 10:16 pm

I For One,Like To Play Different roles and attitudes.I Like To Scope People Out;Find Out What They Are Like.But In All Honesty, I Would Rather Spend My Life (With The Woman Of My Dreams,)With Her And Only Her.So The Answer Is No Were Not All Looking For One Night Stands.Been there done It. Lifes too short.We Now Need To Find Someone To Cherish Through health And Sickness Until Death Do Us part. Amen.

rm_TorontoGiver 35M
19 posts
1/18/2006 12:05 am

Where u from Luv2? I too like a consistent ongoing thing. But hard to find in my experience.

rm_TorontoGiver 35M
19 posts
1/18/2006 12:06 am

By the way I'm not longer in a couple,just having problems changing my profile. Just a standard member now too sadly

rm_bound2serveU 57M

5/2/2006 7:03 am

I know what you mean, It's often nice to get into a groove as long as it dosn't turn into a rut.

One nighters don't interest me, I like to get a good feel for someone and let things develope. I think only then can you realy start to get in tune with each other and let the rythems of intimace flow over you. Ohhhhmmmmmmm

bigirlvr 41M
1 post
7/10/2006 9:20 am

i'm new to this site and what your talking about is exactly why i'm here. i was actually hoping that everyone isn't in it for one nighters or wam bam thank you mam, i enjoy making it like a date.get away from your normal day to day, go for dinner , maybe a walk or a movie, all that leads up the grand fianlly ! i hope to find some too who can enjoy that a few times a month.

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