Likes and dislikes?  

luv2sucuoff 39F
69 posts
9/25/2005 4:41 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Likes and dislikes?


I was chatting with a friend of mine today, and we were talking about the vast variety of things that people find attractive in the opposite sex. You have your standard T&A answers, and nice eyes, and smile...but thinking outside the box, and noticing almost everything, I appreciate and get turned on by, some different things. I am always curious about other peoples likes and dislikes.
Personally, I am a complete sucker for dimples and curly hair. I love thick, strong thighs. Clean and manly hands, and a sexy muscular forearm. I cannot get past bad teeth, for some reason, and I am not so fond of completely hairless men.
When it comes to black men, I particularly like how pink their tongues look against their lips, and how their dark skin reflects light, so they appear shiny. hahaha
This same friend, who (too bad for me) lives in Montreal, has all of the above, and listens to What Women Want. Above all else, that is the ultimate turn on. Thinking about it all...it's getting hot in here. Again! Gotta love the flashbacks, hey? They must be half the fun...
I wonder what are the small things that you notice? enjoy? get turned on by? look for? require? despise?

SweetLoadInKC 45M

9/25/2005 8:14 pm

I tend to have a weakness for long hair, whether curly or straight as long as it is obvious that they take care of it.. that and the normal T&A stuff...especially the "T".


harpie8 48F

9/27/2005 3:36 pm

I like the totally clean cut guy. Short well groomed hair, Nice dresser and extreme confidence. I can't get past long hair on a man. No way, no how!!! I love when they have that certain something in their eyes that says 'yes I may look ultra conservative to the outside world, but get me behind closed doors and all bets are off'. They must be intelligent and educated. I'm sorry if that seems snobish, but its just a personal preference. I don't really care what they do with the education they have, just as long as they can carry on a conversation about things other than sex. The ultra rennisance man is what I guess I like. He enjoys art, music, literature, theatre etc etc. Being a huge tease and flirt helps tremendously as well. Hmmm this is sounding an awful lot like someone I know lol.


dicegrrl 39F

9/28/2005 12:08 pm

I love men's shoulders. Especially in proportion to their hips...something so MALE about it just turns me on. I love great forearms and even their hairy legs as long as they aren't too hairy.


Gauntlet7505 41M

10/8/2005 12:38 am

I have to say I love a quick wit. I enjoy a good (and friendly) verbal sparring. If someone is rude or just foul (bad higene, or just simply ignorant to the extreme) it's an immediate turn off. I do have a weakness for long hair. Also someone who makes sustained eye contact (laugh if you want, but people don't look into someone's eyes as often as you'd think) will make a big difference.


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