Have you ever  

lustcurious42 56F
257 posts
9/4/2006 7:08 pm

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9/5/2006 10:11 pm

Have you ever

Have you ever sat and wondered what kind of person you want to spend your life with? I've been giving that some thought lately (duh.....). Most of the men I date usually like to party, have never had a pedicure in their life, and own maybe three pairs of shoes. And that's all fine.....I have alot of fun. But the sweet lover is different. Not my usual. And today I was thinking maybe that is part of what makes it special. My ex-hubby's idea of romance was to say hey, grab me a beer, when's dinner.....
The Sweet Lover goes to the grocery store with me, he likes to go shopping with me, he shares the remote and asks me what I want to watch, he caresses my face softly when he asks is everything ok, baby. If my feet are dry, he grabs the lotion and massages them for me. He offers to help me if I'm cooking. If he wants a bowl of ice cream, he gets up and gets it himself, he makes me coffee and yet he tells me I make HIM feel good. And he is the one that pampers me.
I think that's his special sex tool. Pampering always gets me in the mood. I mean what hot-blooded woman can honestly say "Nopers, don't want the pussy licked right now" when she's been mentally loved all day?
I guess today I've been thinking about forever, about growing old (dammit, anyway). About what kind of man I want to be there for me tomorrow. And my answer is him. I know he's strong and if he ever had to, he'd be the one to wheel me in my chair out to enjoy the sunshine with him rather than sipping a beer and watching a game at the neighborhood bar and grill.
Have you ever thought about really matters as you go into the next chapters of your life? Is it the bulging muscles of his arm or the love in his eyes that bind your heart?

ZZ_Todd 59M

9/4/2006 8:00 pm

I'm in it for the long ride... sex is good, true, but like you said, sometimes the mental one is all you need. It's about a partnership, really. Even though my first (and only) wife apparently didn't take our vows too seriously, I did, and still believe in them... just not with her, obviously!

lustcurious42 replies on 9/4/2006 10:23 pm:
I just finally realized that maybe my priorities have changed....

goodatpoetry2 67M
13236 posts
9/4/2006 10:08 pm

Oh Christ! A woman in love!
Blah, blah, blah......LOL!

lustcurious42 replies on 9/4/2006 10:19 pm:
bend over and bring me your ass..........

lustcurious42 replies on 9/4/2006 10:20 pm:
and hey, it'll be worse if I end up with a broken heart

digdug41 49M

9/5/2006 5:16 pm

well the biggest sex organ is the brain, so if he strokes that all day its only right he stroke the other at night, good stuff.

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lustcurious42 replies on 9/5/2006 9:17 pm:
It is nice to be stroked in all those ways...........feeds the body, the soul, the heart

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