Well, what did I expect?  

lushgirl69 49F
329 posts
8/17/2005 10:18 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Well, what did I expect?

You know, when I first looked into this site, ti was with the encouragement of my guy who was hoping to swing with other couples. He is long gone, and I find myself drawn back to this for a variety of reasons.
I read a blog recently about the idea of the ego boosting effect it can have. I admit, that was a bonus for me. I hated being out in the cold and wanted to feel validated in this way.
What I have realized is the fact that there are some articulate and intellectually stimulating people who, though they may be out there looking for a hook-up, on whatever level, they are simply making a connection. I mean on a different level.
The responses I have had on my mail, beyond the "Hey, you look hot. Let's fuck." variety, youknow, the ones who actually read my responses and views, are great and have opened up a venue to talk to people with the same mind set. Yeah, I talk trash sometimes, but, the idea of the id, ego and all being fed is good.
I don't think this is the facilitator to life long happiness, etc., but a bit of group therapy never hurt anyone.....

UndertheOakTre2 41M
3 posts
8/17/2005 10:50 am

that pretty much sums it up. You def. have to know what to expect when entering here. I've come to notice in the short time I'm here you have to weed out the confused. ttyl.

14u24me34all 51M
235 posts
8/17/2005 2:43 pm

Seems to me that the change in your purpose for logging on to this site is not that unusual, my own situation is sort of similar, and a handful of people I've met have told me likewise...but for every yin
there's a yang....sort of like the real world,it takes all kinds...

I like your picture...Trick or Treat?

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