Ladies: Is He Really Interested In You?  

luckywithladeez 49M
91 posts
9/12/2005 3:38 pm

Last Read:
2/10/2011 11:31 pm

Ladies: Is He Really Interested In You?

Ladies: Is He Really Interested In You?

Ladies
Ladies, we all know that it’s easy to vaguely generalize about that caveman next to you, but it's also crucial to know his idiosyncrasies, what clues reveal what he’s truly thinking, and whether or not he’s interested in you romantically. Once you learn these signals, you can use them to your advantage, and tell if that cute guy is really interested in you, or is merely playing. Don’t see your own insight(s) in this list? Great, let’s add it/them!

Ladies, Read His Body Language!

His facial cues.
He serves you an eyebrow flash. When he first sees a lady he’s attracted to, his eyebrows rise and fall.

He wonders what your mouth tastes like.
His lips part. If he likes what he sees, his lips will automatically part for a moment when your eyes first lock.

His interest in you deepens.
His nostrils flare and his face generally "opens". His raised eyebrows, his parted lips, his flaring nostrils, and his wide eyes give his entire face a friendly "open" expression.

He focuses your attention on him.
He tries to attract your attention. He might subtly adjust his tie or expensive Rolex, along with a silent prayer that you'll notice the flash of movement.

He emphasizes his sexuality to you.
He strokes his tie or smoothes his lapel. We all know what these preening gestures mean.

He encourages your interest in him.
He focuses your attention on his unique appearance, by smoothing or messing up his hair. Which gestures he chooses depend on his hairstyle and what's going to make it look more flattering.

Signs that he is thinking about more than sex.
Believe it or not, men actually think about other things than sex with women. Common clues include when his eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking. A slightly surprised, quizzical expression means he finds you fascinating.

Now you’ve got his attention.
He is totally erect...err, what I mean is; he stands with all his muscles pulled tight, to show his body off to you.

He ensures that you notice him noticing you.
He lets you see him checking out your body. Some experts call it "visual voyaging"—his eyes take a little cruise around your body, stopping momentarily at the prettiest ports. He will likely engage your eyes, then smile briefly.

He shows off for you (I know, this is a guy thing).
He spreads his legs while sitting opposite you, to give you a good crotch display...he is letting you have a good look at what he has to offer. Hopefully, he still has his jeans or pants on at the time [ha ha ha].

He poses for you.
He stands with hands on hips, accentuating his physical size and suggesting his body confidence. It's also a pointing gesture.

He is becoming excited about you.
He plays with the buttons on his jacket, buttoning and unbuttoning it. It's a displacement activity (fiddling) because you've made him a little nervous, plus an unconscious desire to remove his clothes.

He becomes even more nervous/excited about you.
He touches his face a lot while looking at you. If he is interested, he will stroke his cheek up and down with the back of his fingers, touch his ears, or rub his chin. He wants to touch you, but can’t control his instincts.

His nervousness/sexual agitation increases.
He starts squeezing his glass/can or rolls it from side to side, slightly squeezing it as he does so. When men are sexually interested, they start playing with circular objects [like their penis].

The hook is almost set.
He perches on the edge of his seat to get closer to you. And if he crosses his legs, the top leg will point in your direction

The hook is set.
He guides you by putting his arm on your elbow or in the small of your back. The arm guide isn't just good manners and a polite way of guiding you through a crowd; he's making sure he knows exactly where you're going by taking you there.

He marks his territory.
Actually, ladies, this starts in school, remember wearing his letterman’s jacket?
He'll lend you his coat or sweater. Few guys would be happy to return from the bar to find their girlfriend's evening dress covered by another guy's jacket.

If you notice any combination of the above signs, make sure that you show your interest too and let him believe that he controls the game.

But really ladies, we all know whose playing field this truly is don’t we?

Remember his body language never lies! Now you know that you like him, and he likes you too.




rm_jacexprime2 39M
67 posts
9/13/2005 5:08 am

A good post, but hearing the things guys tend to do versus what women do makes it almost seem comical, even if it's the truth. Guys do funny things. I know humor wasn't your intent though, so don't think I'm making fun of it. It's informative! I just like laughing at the way guys get goofy over women....*lol*

I'm sure I'm guilty of some of these....*looks around to make sure no ones watching him*


sensually_me

9/13/2005 12:45 pm

Wonderful post. I enjoy reading your blog, lucky, and thank you for visiting mine.

Next, I'd like to see you post something more along the lines of "Ladies: Is SHE Really Interested in You?" *grins* Maybe that would be a little tough for a man to write.

*gigglin' at jace*


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/13/2005 7:31 pm

mizzkitka,

I think that many people fear rejection/disproval, so they muzzle our reactions. Fortunately, you are fearless, and continue posting wonderful articles in your blog.

jacexprime2,

Well, you know that it's true! And there is a lot more to come.

sensually_me,

Thank you for your kind words. You, like mizzkitka, have created a wonderful blog, as well. (read my next article )


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/13/2005 7:33 pm

mizzkitka,

I think that many people fear rejection/disproval, so they muzzle our reactions. Fortunately, you are fearless, and continue posting wonderful articles in your blog.

jacexprime2,

Well, you know that it's true! I have many more articles like this to post.

sensually_me,

Thank you for your kind words. You, like mizzkitka, have created a wonderful blog, as well. (read my next article


Theflinkychick 105F

9/13/2005 8:22 pm

This is very helpful. After being with one person for so long and being used to that one set of cues these posts are a refresher course in dating and I REALLY need the help!

Not all who wander are lost.


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/13/2005 9:14 pm

mizzkitka,

I think that many people fear rejection/disproval, so they muzzle their reactions. Fortunately for us, you are fearless, and continue posting wonderful articles in your blog.
Thanks for stopping by, and for your kind words.

jacexprime2,

Well, you know that it's true! I have many more articles like this to post.
Thanks for stopping by.

sensually_me,

Thank you for your kind words. You, like mizzkitka, have created a wonderful blog, as well. (read my next article


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/14/2005 3:43 am

mizzkitka,

Shhhhhhh. Actually, I have such an article in the wings, but you know that it just isn't fair, I write while you ladies play, and you don't even invite me to the party!



lucky


sensually_me

9/14/2005 8:50 am

hehe mizz...actually, I'd like to see a man's take on this, as well as a woman. And what better man to write it than our wonderful Mr. Lucky?

You can party with us anytime, hon! *takes the keyboard away from him--c'mon!*


sensually_me

9/14/2005 8:53 am

psst...if I could actually ever get mizzkitka, all of you guys would be eatin' your hearts out...*evil grin*


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/26/2005 7:43 am

sensually_me,

Where do I sign up?

travelingintexas,

Hey, I've done a fair share of table dancing myself...ever tried mixing Tequila with flamenco dancing? Ha ha ha
Drop by anytime you're in the neighborhood, keep on blogging.

Anemone1,

Aren't you the perceptive one? I'm sure glad that you're my friend; you see these issues so clearly, so effortlessly, without any preconceived notions.
Thanks for stopping by, and for your feedback.

lucky


luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
11/20/2005 10:20 pm

diamondangel5,

Although the pinch on the shoulder is usually a sign of camaraderie, depending upon the man and the circumstance, his pinch may be a sensual gesture, as well.

Thanks for stopping by, and for your feedback.

lucky


Become a member to create a blog