hurt and anger  

lucky_lady15 52F
28 posts
11/20/2005 8:38 pm

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hurt and anger

Have any of you ever been hurt so badly that you wanted payback? Even if the hurt/disappointment was caused by you to begin with and the problem escallated when the other person deliberatley went out of their way to make sure you were hurt further.

I had this "friend" a few months back. It ended badly that I am still not over the pain from it. I almost am tho. I have come a long way in healing mainly due to a special man in my life. I often vowed that I would get this particular person back due to all the pain he inflicted. I had read something recently that proves he has a mistress. Stupid thing to do is put it in writing bragging about it.

Would you use this information to put closure on the ending of a friendship or would you let it go? I know this information that I have would probably crush his wife if she knew but it isnt her I want to hurt. Would he be hurt by it? I wonder.

rm_lovelyLady 64F
434 posts
11/20/2005 9:37 pm

I understand you are hurting, but you will be far better off by just letting it go. The longer you hang on the longer it will be haunting you. What he did sounds mean and cruel and thoughtless... Don't let that happen to you too.. The longer you hang on the more power you give to him........... Take your power back and do the right thing. Your best bet is to let it go......... forgive and forget......... The sooner the better. I know it is not easy now....... But don't put yourself down on his level....

What I would do..... is take a long hot bath, light some candles,,,,, settle in and ask your self....... What am I supposed to learn from this.........? It will come to you.......

Good luck and take care of yourself
xoxo LL

rm_Blazinghot74 43M/42F

11/20/2005 9:41 pm

Revenge is never good, It will come back to get YOU in the end. It may feel good at the time, but that good feeling will go away.

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