Wanting the best sex  

ltl_vixn828 36F
19 posts
8/18/2005 9:33 am

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Wanting the best sex


How come men just can't satisfy me? I have been with several men lately and NO MAN can make me orgasm! What's the deal? Am I just not meeting the right men? Hopelessly looking for Great Sex

hooterman1969 47M

8/18/2005 10:44 am

That's because you need a man that's tuned in to a woman's needs. Not just a man that wants to get his rocks off. I am not boasting by any means, but I know how women feel. And I know what they like. That
comes with experience and learning to listen to their partners. A man should not be afraid to ask a woman what she likes. And a woman should not be afraid to guide a man. And if you doubt it, you can get in touch with me...ha ha...


261795 38M

8/18/2005 10:48 am

you need a english man like me if u want a orgasm


amadoro49 60M

8/18/2005 10:54 am

obviously you haven't been with me. No brag, just fact.


rm_Whoo_Hooo 50M

8/18/2005 10:55 am

Sorry to hear about your lack of satisfaction. By the looks of your picture, I would guess they guys most likely "pop" before taking your needs into consideration. I suggest finding an older man with a little more self-control.

Good Luck.


frenchkiss7070 47M
1 post
8/18/2005 11:01 am

hello..i m new in FLA..just settled in Jacksonville.and living alone here..35 years old,,engineer and working as a manager in a telecommunication company here .i ll have a trip to south this weekend..hope to see u in person..would be nice if u accept my dinner invitation..hope to hear from you.have a nice day.


makucum6x 51M
16 posts
8/18/2005 11:25 am

I agree with Whoo_Hooo before you say, "spoken like an older man myself". There are a few things us older guys know that you youngsters won't find out until later. Another useful tidbit, stay away from the braggers, they are either all talk or just plain jerks.

I think you need to find someone a bit older who you are physically and emotionally connected to and it WILL happen.


rm_OuT4FuN205 33M

8/18/2005 11:30 am

look you need a strong young man like myself with the stamina of a iron man marathon runer and youll be sit so when you see this im more than willing to help you reach your goal


nastycock122 36M
4 posts
8/18/2005 11:58 am

lol... it doesnt matter how old you are guys I am only 25 and I have given plenty orgasms to ladies its all about takin your time and pleasing her first. hope to here from u vixen


pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
8/18/2005 1:09 pm

Before you Have sex with a partner Masterbate and have him or her do the same.This will help.You know where your sweet spot's are that can make you Cummmm to achieve your Orgasm's.


justkickinit5 36M
9 posts
8/18/2005 1:51 pm

hey sweetheart , sounds like you are having some major problems.. there could be a quick solution, or a little more to it than that.. sometime when people have too much sex it gets boring and your body dosen't react the same as it once did, stress, problems at work, not getting who or what you want could also play a big factor in your sex life. sometimes sex has to be more than just finding a random guy or girl and getting it on... don't get me wrong i love the ramdon encounter as do most people.. although i am just as old as you and have encountered similar problems with my self not getting off... that can really kill sex after a few times... your partner is happy but you are going crazy... take some time and find someone you are truly attracted to , someone that drives you crazy just thinking of him or her touching you( you don't have to marry the person) that might help you to explode into a multiple orgasam.. you will proberly scare the shit out of the person once all that happens, but it will be worth it ... then your problem should be all straighted out... unless you have just been having really bad sex ... let me know how it works out.... good luck sweetheart...


gvillepartyguy 35M

8/18/2005 3:48 pm

hey, really sorry to hear about your misfortune, going through all the motions but nothings worked. must be a real bummer, id love the opportunity to knock your socks off


rm_sexplorer025 35M

8/18/2005 4:13 pm

Hi
Well the only solution is finding the kind of guy that likes pleasing women more than getting pleased. Many men will say that they want that but then probably it isn't true. The true secret of acchieving an orgasm is TALKING during sex. Not thinking" if I moan like this he'll know i like that". No silently and very sexy explaining eachother what you like and what you like more. After that any quick learner/sensitive guy will make you float on air. I promise you that. If that still doesn't work than there is something wrong in your head. Something prevents you from accepting pleasure. The, the only thing that works is a lot off patience and talking outside the bedroom aswell as in the bedroom. I guy just must know how to deal with another womans emotions. When he gets that right than it's time to take you hard like only a man can. But if you start that way the physique will lose from the mind.
Hope I was helpfull. Otherwise good luck.


rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
8/19/2005 6:37 am

Hi Vixn,

I put together some tips and thoughts for you. Hopefully you will find some useful information in it. Since unfortunately I don't know you, I didn't know what areas to focus on so I kept it pretty general although at times explicit.

First you need to RELAX. I know it is hard but stop worrying about it. Make sure you're not worrying about mundane stuff like if you’re in the right type of lighting to look your best. Don’t cloud your ability to experience the pleasure of the moment by worrying about stubble or how long it is taking to reach your orgasm. See yourself as the beautiful sensual orgasmic woman that you are. If you have trouble visualizing yourself as the beautiful sex goddess that you are, fake it. That’s right; this is something that is okay to fake because it will only take a short while for you to figure out that you are a beautiful sexual goddess.

Many women are nervous about their partner seeing them cum. Understand completely that there is no face or noise that a woman can make during love making that will turn a man off. ENJOY it if your face contorts, if you turn red, if you grunt, or make any other kind of noise. These are all things that men LOVE to see in their partner. Men like positive feedback that we are doing it right, and your reactions only turn us on more. At any moment that negativity kicks in remind yourself you're more beautiful to us this way than any other. Any doubts about that? Think of this - how much have you enjoyed it when YOU have made a lover cum? You will probably never see a man try to play down his response or control it so you can't see it - and I bet you enjoy it immensely. Try to have yours the same way. You need to be able to allow your body, mind, and spirit to release themselves to the pleasure of the moment. If you have concerns about unexpected body fluid release, let it go, it doesn’t matter to someone who cares about you. If this is a concern for you let me know and I will allay those concerns.

Sexually fulfilled women don't view their Big O as a lucky bonus. Instead, reaching the pleasure pinnacle is their right. Men don't consider it sex unless they have an orgasm. Sexual satisfaction is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don't expect to be peeled off the ceiling, it won't happen. So don’t believe that orgasms are elusive rewards reserved for select women – they're yours for the taking. YOU DESERVE GREAT SEX.

Make sure you have a good comfort level with your partner. Intimacy is a must because in order to truly enjoy yourself it takes a complete surrender of your body, mind, and spirit to the pleasure of the moment. You need to have a partner that you feel so comfortable with that you can be totally uninhibited with them. You need to be able to give control over to your partner which can be difficult if you do not have complete trust in them. Open honest communication between partners is essential for great love making. Let go of any perceived or real issues which will impact your ability to let go and enjoy the moment. You should communicate with your partner in advance so that each of you understands each others boundaries and so you can work thru any specific concerns such as birth control or anything else.

Men love to please. But even the most perceptive guy in the world won't have your moan zones all mapped out. Tell your partners how you like to be touched. If you're not used to being so erotically expressive, clue your partner in by praising his sexual performance. Compliment us on what we are doing well, and then add a subtle suggestion: "It turns me on so much when you kiss my breasts, I'd go wild if you put your hand between my legs too." And when time comes throw modesty out and scream if need be for us to stroke your clit because you’re ready to cum. We WILL respect you and will love you more.

Incorporate relaxation techniques if you need help relaxing. A good massage or a warm bath before love making helps one to relax. If your lover is not really good at massages, go to a professional. However, if your lover does not know how to perform sensual massage, they need to learn no excuses. While you're relaxing, think about your favorite fantasy. (Your mind is your biggest erogenous zone.) Get into it as far as you can. Tanta is also a very effective method to incorporate relaxation and more into your love making if needed.

Atmosphere is important. This will also help you to relax. Being in a familiar place with no distractions and having things like candles, rose petals, and the right music helps. What is the right music depends on the person and situation.

You have to be able to focus on the moment and the act itself. Concentrate on the physical sensations and your feelings for the person who is giving you those sensations. Utilize everyone of your senses. If necessary you should even tell your partner what cologne he should wear.

Your lover has to be good. He has to know the signs of you approaching orgasm. He has to know what really drives you wild. And when you get close, he has to know how to turn up the heat to push you over the edge.

Romance helps, and again this is something that in large part is on your lover's shoulders.

Here are four paths to the orgasmic enlightenment you will soon be enjoying.

1. Masturbation ‒ First and foremost, you need to start by trying some new masturbation techniques. You need to explore your body to help inform yourself and your lovers in how to make love to you. You need to fully discover all of your pleasure points. I would recommend experimenting with sexual aids (sex toys) if you have not already done so. If you use both hands you can hold a vibrator against your clit and a dildo inside you. Remember to utilize your fantasy and try not to focus on cumming just let it happen.

"Don't knock masturbation -- it's sex with someone I love."
~Woody Allen~

2. Mutual Masturbation ‒ Mutual masturbation can be a wonderful addition to any couple's sexual repertoire. Not only do most people find it stimulating, but it serves as a magnificent tool for learning how to touch each other. This is not the goal in your case. It is merely a means to teach your lover how to enhance his ability to bring you pleasure.

3. Oral sex ‒ I will include this as a separate comment b/c it is quite lengthy.

4. Intercourse ‒ Experiment with which positions allow you continue to swell the tide of your passion to its breaking point. For many women being on top works well because they can direct stimulation against their clitoris and set the tempo of intercourse. Important, do not be afraid to employ this position vigorously. You will not break your partner and he will be extremely happy watching you shake with an earth shattering orgasm. That means grind yourself against him with as much pressure as you require. Trust me he will Love it. Other positions that might have advantages include any position where you or your partner can provide extra stimulation to your clitoris using fingers or a vibrator. As always it is up to you to determine what positions work best for you.

I hope some of this helps Beautiful. I enjoyed writing it soo much I need a cold shower.

Best wishes

Always,
Luke

"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson~


S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo
.
~Dante~


rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
8/19/2005 8:17 am

Hi Beautiful,

As I mentioned in my previous post to your recent question, here is a thorough discourse on oral sex which you can share with your intended partner so he will be able to provide the Great Sex that you deserve. I got this information from a post by SPANISHMAMI1000. As you can tell the writing is a bit more explicit than mine. It even made me blush a little. Since I don't have the fortune of knowing you personally I couldn't make judgements to exclude any information so I'm sending it to you pretty much intact. I hope you find this information helpful. And of course if I can ever be of any further assistence, I would be happy to be of service. After writing and reading all of this I need to go take a long long long cold shower.

A DISCUSSION ABOUT EATING OUT

Eating a woman's pussy is about the most wonderful thing you can do for her. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and of course it makes her cum like crazy. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it is the easiest way to cum with a man.

First off, guys seem to have a strange love/hate relationship with women's genitalia. Guys that can't wait to get their dick into one are often reluctant to put their face "down there". For every guy who says he loves to eat pussy, there's another one who's squeamish. Women know this, and it affects their ability to lay back and enjoy the experience. There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. Don't be coy; tell her. When a guy fingers a lady and then smells, licks, sucks the juice off his finger and sighs as if in heaven, she knows this is her lucky day.

What if your sweet lady doesn't smell or taste very sweet? Don't suffer. (Don't complain, either.) Take a nice hot shower or bath together. Lather up both of your bodies and slide them together. It's like a whole body fuck. Soap up her vulva, washing between her outer and inner lips. Spread her lips apart and gently wash her clitoris. Hey, don't stop - this feels great! Run your soapy hand down the crack of her ass, and rub a finger all around her anus. You can stick one finger in and wash around inside too, if you anticipate any anal play, and I suggest you do. But don't put those soapy fingers up her vagina. Instead, rinse them off well and stick one or two inside, making a circular motion. Think about washing the inside of a tall glass - same thing. Now wasn't that fun? And now you can feel free to let your tongue wander anywhere it pleases...

So now what? You've found a comfy spot to play, you've been kissing passionately, your tongues darting around each other's mouths like playful otters. You've moved down to nibble one of her hardening nipples and she's starting to groan, grinding her pelvis against your stomach. STOP. I know it was just starting to get good. But was she really groaning and humping you, or was it your own excitement you were detecting? I strongly prefer to be excited before a guy starts plunging his tongue into my inner recesses. Use your judgment, and kiss, lick, and fondle your way down her stomach, up her thighs, until she's arching up her back trying to get you to eat her. Of course, if she really was groaning and grinding, go for it...I also don't particularly enjoy a guy endlessly nibbling my inner thigh while my clit is quivering in anticipation.

So there you are staring at it - the mysterious hole from whence you came, and into which you hope to cum again... First, an anatomy lesson...

THE CLITORIS
Before I go any further, a few words about the clitoris, accent on the first syllable. Most of you know it, but for those who don't, it is THE woman's sex organ, period. It may feel great to be fucked vaginally, anally or otherwise, but if the stimulation is not right there, on the clitoris, you're ignoring the place that's going to make her cum, and presumably that's why you're reading this, right? It's right there at the top juncture of her inner lips, a small knob of pink flesh. This is where it's at boys, and don't forget it. Almost any licking and sucking of the labia or vaginal entrance is going to feel just dandy; just remember that this is pleasurable teasing, not the main event. I can't tell you how many guys have thrust their tongues up my vagina thinking that this was going to make me cum. They were wrong. Of course, with a little manual stimulation....but I'm getting ahead of myself.

Women feel differently about how much direct stimulation they can take on their clitoris. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clits, others will shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you'll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. IMPORTANT NOTE: Often, what is unacceptably rough at first may be fine after she's very excited. The fact is, most women really need a good bit of stimulation before a targeted attack on their clitoris, but once they're there, that's where you want to devote your attention.

The key here is go slow, ask questions, and if she's comfortable with it, leave the lights on and really explore. Body language often does tell what feels best, but I promise, she will appreciate your attentiveness if you ask outright. If she seems shy, get her to guide your hands and mouth with her own hand, and pay attention. If she starts bucking up against your mouth and gasping in ragged little breaths, for God's sake, don't use this opportunity to try something different. Just keep doing exactly what you're doing.

THE TONGUE
I want to reiterate, there is almost nothing you can do that won't feel terrific, so relax! I promise, you may be confused and uncertain, but she's in heaven. Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area is going to feel just great, and I'd no sooner tell guys to "do it exactly like this" than I would tell every chef to follow the same recipe. But for those who are compelled to RTFM, here are a few techniques that you might like to try:

Try lapping her pussy from vaginal entrance up to her clit, leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed. This is a good way to start your tonguing.

Run your tongue between the inner and outer labia on one side, while holding the two together with your lips. Good job, now do the other side.

Fuck her pussy with your tongue - in and out, around and around, etc. This feels nice. Not wonderful or incredible or earth-shaking; nice.

Spread her outer lips with your hand. Then, with your tongue pointed and stiff, gently flick here and there. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clit. This drives some women wild, and others can't take it. Some may prefer that you always leave your tongue soft, so when you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.

The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e. she's no longer coherent). These are very intense actions which may be "too much" for some women, even when nearing orgasm.

With her clit still exposed, give it a quick little suck - pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like torturing her (see PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER below).

Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently (at first, anyway) suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.

Another choice technique involves rolling your tongue into a tube. If you can't do this with your tongue, you can't learn it - it's genetic. For those who can, this works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube _around_ the shaft of her clitoris. Slide it up and down; in effect, your tongue makes a tiny pussy for her clit to fuck. This also is likely to bring her over the edge.

Fingers
Fingers are a valuable adjunct to eating pussy. Most women masturbate by pressing a finger or fingers over their clit, possibly "through" the skin of their inner or outer lips, and vigorously rubbing in a circular or back-and-forth direction. You can do this too, and it is most helpful to ask, or better yet, have her show you how she likes it done. You will never be a good lover until you can bring your woman to climax with your hands. When you fuck her from behind, or up her ass, or really in any position which doesn't allow her to simultaneously rub her vulva against your body, reach down or around and rub her clit. I know it's distracting, but just do it anyway. One important point to note: make sure that your fingers are well lubricated. There is nothing more uncomfortable (and sometimes downright painful) than a dry finger roughly rubbed across one's clitoris.

Of course, that's not all you can do with your fingers. One technique which is very exciting is to spread her lips wide apart with one hand, and with your index finger straight like a pencil, flick the side of it rapidly across her clit. This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Combining this with the addition of some tongue action elsewhere is nothing short of bliss.

Sticking one or more fingers inside her vagina is also wonderful. You can simply move them in and out (this feels best with at least two or three fingers, pushed in hard), or wriggling them around. A particularly intense motion is to face your hand so that you have two fingers inside her with your palm facing the front of her body. Now move your fingers rapidly, as if waving hello. You are aiming to stimulate a particular part of the woman's vagina - namely the lower anterior (front) part. When combined with sucking her clit, this is nearly certain to bring her to a fast and intense climax.

An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one (and later two) fingers inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons area. I'm talking about that fleshy "mound" over her pubic bone. Your finger goes in and out and the ball of your hand is pressed hard against her vulva. You may want to rub or even shake the entire area with your palm.

Fingers also do nice things to tight little butt holes, but that's a whole other story...

Anal Play
This stuff is purely optional. If anal play doesn't turn you on, don't do it. If you're uncomfortable, she'll pick up on your feelings and start wondering if it's her pussy that's turning you off. Don't feel that you can't be a good lover without anal play; you can.

Cleanliness is of the essence. (remember that nice soapy shower?) Scoop out some luscious juices (from a very wet pussy) with your finger and rub it around her anus. (If she isn't well lubricated, saliva works too.) If that's all you or she feels comfortable with, fine - it still feels great. But I think most women enjoy the feel of a finger pushed up their ass while they're being fucked or eaten. You need to be gentle, possibly even leaving your finger still. Try moving it in and out a little, or around in a circle. If she starts moaning, you know you're doing something right.

It's really fun to feel a woman's anus rhythmically squeezing your finger as she cums. (And it's great for her, too) You're probably thinking about what that would feel like around your dick, and it's something you should certainly explore. Ass-fucking is somewhat out of the scope of this article, but suffice to say, if she doesn't like a finger up her butt, she sure as hell won't want your big dick up there. Even if she does enjoy this sort of play, she may still be somewhat apprehensive about putting something so large up there. The keys to success are sufficient (i.e. copious amounts of) lubrication (a water-soluble type such as K-Y, which is safe for condoms), relaxation on her part, and a slow, gentle, approach. She'll certainly tell you if she wants you to thrust harder or deeper. And remember, if you want to feel that delicious squeezing around your cock, reach around and diddle that clit!

As for analingus - why not? Don't feel like you HAVE to do it to satisfy your woman. But if the idea turns you on, great. Let your tongue rove as it pleases. It's not necessary to actually put your tongue inside her butt to stimulate the area. Back and forth, around and around, you get the picture.

One hygiene note: once that finger (or your penis) has been inside her ass, don't even think about putting it anywhere else. Carelessness in this regard can cause a horrendous infection.

Menstruation
I haven't met a lot of men who are completely comfortable going down on a woman when she has her period. But some are. Most women are at their horniest before and sometimes during their period. You should definitely find a way to make her cum when she's bleeding, be it through intercourse, manual, or oral stimulation. If you feel comfortable going down on her, great. It's perfectly safe. You may suggest that she insert a tampon, and then wash up. (As you now know, you don't need to get anywhere near her vagina to make her cum.) Or you could lay down a few old towels, turn out the lights, and forget about it.

Putting It All Together
I think variety is crucial. Some guy posted an article detailing a road map of kissing and licking (first here, then here, etc.) Much better to do the unexpected; sometimes a hungry, aggressive approach, other times a laid-back, leisurely one. You can even include your nose, or your chin into the act. Start slow, that's the key, and let your lover guide the speed of the crescendo. In all cases, start gently. Roughness and clumsiness are big turn-offs. As she gets more and more excited, pay more attention to her clitoris. When she's three breathes away from cumming, moving your mouth off or away from her clit is agony. That's fine if you're intentionally torturing her, just understand that this is what you are doing. The only prohibition is to be reasonably gentle with her clit. Nibbling or biting is fine elsewhere, but we're talking about a sensitive spot.

Okay, she's practically suffocating you, she's pressed so hard against your face; she's screaming and bucking up in the air; you feel her pussy contracting wildly - how long should you keep it up?? The simple answer is, until she makes you stop. Some women may stop you after five seconds from the start of their climax, others may be able to roll right into another orgasm if you keep going. Do come up for air, but remember, her excitement does not drop off as sharply as yours does. Play it safe by continuing the stimulation.

How many times does she need to cum? Some women are very content to have one orgasm. A whole lot of women would really like to cum again, but need about five minutes to recoup. Many women are so sensitive right after they cum that they may push your head violently away. This doesn't necessarily mean they've had enough, only that you need to stop for a few minutes. In fact most women, given a short rest between, are capable of cumming again and again. A smaller percentage of women are able to cum repeatedly with continued stimulation. This is the much-touted multiple-orgasm that is experienced by a minority of women. I know this makes it difficult to know when enough is enough, but there's a simple answer: ask her.

GODI'MSOEXCITEDITFEELSGREATBUTIJUSTCAN'TCOME It happens to all of us sometimes - distraction, embarrassment, anxiety, or just an inability to "let go". What do you do about it? The first question is, can she easily bring herself to a climax in the privacy of her own home. If the answer is no - then she needs to do some homework. There are two books on the subject that I know of: "For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality" by Lonnie Barbach, and "Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving" by Betty Dodson; pick up one. Then tell her to read it, study it, and practice, practice, practice!

Now if your partner is orgasmic only when alone - ask her point blank: "Is there something different I can do?" Many women are shy about criticizing their lovers, but if asked outright will surprise you with a very specific answer. It may be a simple matter of mechanics, like a little to right please, or not so rough, or more pressure and faster. Ah... perfect.

But suppose everything is wonderful. She says you're doing everything right but she just can't cum. There are two probable causes: self- consciousness and/or self-loathing. For women who can't help watching themselves, the best approach is to eliminate anything that focuses her attention on what the two of you are doing. This is a "be here now" kind of thing - definitely not an introspective activity. Get that mirror off the ceiling. Dim the lights or turn them off completely. Put on some soft music. Share a glass of port. (I said A glass - getting drunk will definitely not help). Have her lay on her back, or propped up comfortably with some pillows. This is not the time for her to sit on your face, or the edge of the bed, or standing up against a wall. Arrange a time when you can devote a long period to eating her pussy, and then just keep it up. Forget everything I said about asking her questions - just close your eyes and get into it. I know this can be a difficult and exhausting exercise, but she will be extravagantly thankful for your efforts. It gets easier each time. If all else fails, get accustomed to masturbating together. Gradually begin to add your stimulation to her own, right before she's about to cum anyway. Over time, you can take over completely.

For women who themselves feel that their cunts are dirty or distasteful, all of the above methods may be helpful, but the underlying issue must also be addressed. I am amazed at how many women are ambivalent about their own genitals. They don't love "that part" of their body, and they can't believe that you would either. Yes, it is important to be clean. But clean means a daily shower which includes washing the vulva. It doesn't mean vainly attempting to remove every trace of smell or taste. The natural fragrance and secretions of a healthy woman are beautiful and erotic. Hopefully you agree (and if not, try hard to cultivate this attitude). When she learns to love her pussy, she will be infinitely more comfortable with your loving it too.

Best wishes Vixn

Always,
Luke

"Dream as if you’ll live forever.
Live as if you’ll die today."
~James Dean~


S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo
.
~Dante~


rm_david91199 30M
1 post
8/19/2005 9:38 pm

if all you want is great sex let me know


spiderman22fl 33M

8/21/2005 8:15 pm

If you're looking for great sex and a tongue that'll keep on going, just say when and where.


hedferst 51M

8/24/2005 8:40 pm

are you guys kidding me?...sex is 80% in HER head...the game starts there...and while long disertations about oral technique are good..for guys who live vicariously through the printed word...EXPERIENCE is the best teacher for those of us who actually step to the plate...don't kid yourself into thinking its a bigger dick...the guy who captures your MIND will make you cum...


d0lphint0m 61M
24 posts
8/27/2005 6:45 pm

Don't go into it thinking it will be sex, but a great full body massage with warm oil and candlelight *and relaxing music. At the end of a half hour you will be begging him to enter you, but he ( won't. I might massage your wet vaginal lips and slip inside to massage your g-spot. Then I may use my mouth to taste your erect clitoris. You would orgasm before the night was through


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