lovenbig69 40F
16 posts
9/24/2005 3:20 pm

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Please let me know if this is possible to meet for sex but be patient while the other person comes out of her shell?

stcharlesguyil 35M
3 posts
9/24/2005 10:13 pm

it all depends on the individual... personally, i think it's worth waiting to see if the other person is willing to open up more... makes the sex all that much more enjoyable... it's all about communicating your wants and needs

gaithes 48M
2 posts
9/25/2005 3:42 am

Why not, like stcharlesguyil said it makes the meeting more enjoyable, and less distressful when you know what the other person expects or "needs" from you and vice versa.

frenchfun 50M  
2 posts
9/25/2005 11:13 am

I never go to a meeting expecting sex. Hoping, yes, but expecting is just setting you up for disappointment. Sex is the result of good chemistry and comfort levels. If it's going to happen, you will both feel it. If not, at least you got to meet a new person. No harm no foul! Meet in public for dinner and have an option to follow up in a more intimate location if the feeling is right!

peddler50 66M  
3 posts
9/26/2005 3:45 am

It is possible, but should meet first, feel confortable, get to know one another then if it works go for it.Sounds exciting.What do u think?

lovenbig69 40F

9/26/2005 5:47 am

Thanks for the feedback guys. It's nice to know there are men out there that are not "pouncers". I am not saying that once we meet things would not move forward but the line..."hi wanna fuck" does not do it for me. Maybe "hi my name is...Yada yada yada..wanna fuck"

rm_Bill4756M 60M

9/26/2005 9:49 am

Absolutly there is no problem with waiting. It is only natural, especially when there are marriages involved that people be safe. I personally would be disappointed if the woman would want just jump in the sack right away. I want to be able to talk and then see where things would lead to.

rm_djkarat 48M
1 post
9/26/2005 12:02 pm

it's totally about chemistry if two meet and they connect sky's the limit to the possibilities, so follow your initial gut feeling.

lookin4groups2fk 41F

9/26/2005 5:29 pm

Oh hun in this experiance just cross your legs and wait it out the right fun guy will come along. If not hey girls are always fun...

rm_Spacecomboy 33M

9/26/2005 7:49 pm

Hi, my name is Scott. How are you today? You wanna fuck? LoL...Just had to give it a try.

lovenbig69 40F

9/27/2005 10:11 am

Nice spacecowboy...lol

jayman973 43M  
11 posts
9/28/2005 12:39 pm

I dont think that there is anything wrong with that. I would want to just jump at it. Even though I might just want to jump her. Good things come to those who wait.

Bigshoulders6721 49M

9/29/2005 8:50 am

There are guys out there that are just in this for the quick hit. You are for too good for any man like that. You are a woman that just is too good for men like that. You are a woman worth waiting for! Worth waiting years if that is what it takes. You are a woman that the more a man gets to know you, the better and more incredibly special you got. I know you had your share of disappointments and heartache (especially recently), but the right man that sees what he has and how incredibly INCREDIBLY special you are will come along (and may have come along, been stupid enough to walk away, and then is trying to come back). Like Looking said, don't bend you values and morals, you are worth the wait, anyone who can't see that is blind and dumb.

lovenbig69 40F

9/29/2005 10:47 am

Well I have to say to big. Thank you. It is nice to hear those words coming from you. Tell the guy who was stupid he is always welcome in my life, as long as he can get with in 5 feet of me with me be pushed away by someone else. All I have been looking for is fun with good times and connections. I know that with that stupid guy I had a huge connection, he just needs to vissit elgin to get it back...Tell him I said so.

ZonesFeraeAloin 48M

9/30/2005 1:32 pm

I have to admit that I do have the anticipation of having sex the first time. But I realize that women have to feel secure that your not the garden varity stalker/serial. So if waiting means more security than that is fine with me. Rushing sex is never good. Anticipation make sex great, awesome and spectacular!!

likes2beme 50M
5 posts
10/6/2005 10:16 am

Lovenbig... A guy and woman have to be patient for sex if they want to get off the way two people should during... I actually like a date that involves a lot of flirting prior to even going near the room! If there is tons of flirting then the anticipation builds and drives the two people into ecstasy! Hope to hear from you soon!

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