The Romance of Sex...June...Intimacy  

lovemetouchme5 51F
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6/30/2006 6:53 pm

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The Romance of Sex...June...Intimacy

I looked at the calendar today and realized that I hadn't posted this month's Romance of Sex tips...So here it is... (this was taken from the book, "The ROMANCE OF SEX"


Men and women long to be joined together - but so much keeps up apart. Truly, we crave closeness, caring, and mutual nurturing. When sex occurs in such a connected relationship, it is psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually the most satisfying thing on earth.

It's scary but wonderful to feel so close that your hearts beat in time and you can finish each other's sentences.

How to Get Intimate

One. Accept your partner as he or she is. Don't try and change what's there - just enjoy it, laugh at it, understand it.

Two. Acknowledge his reluctance - and sometimes yours - to be intimate. Intimacy requires you to open up to your lover as you do to no one else. That takes some risks. But the risk is worth it if you are both willing to be vulnerable.

Three. Recognize that change takes time. You can't get that close overnight. But the time you spend coming together is part of the joy in this relationship.

You can take intimacy a step further when you join forces sexually. The better you know each other, the more you will please each other.

One. Become more self-indulgent. Enjoy every pleasure you've got, from a long, hot bath to an afternoon at the movies. Luxuriate in small delights.

Two. Schedule one hour a week for just the two of you. Maybe you'll choose to make love or take a long walk or lie in each other's arms in front of the fireplace. No pressure.

Three. Give each other a ten minute massage. The one getting the gift picks the area to be massaged.

Four. Jump into bed together. For sleeping, that is. Try to coordinate your bedtimes whenever you can. Snuggling and spooning is nice in every season.

Five. Set your clock for midnight love. Have a date in the middle of the night, when the rest of the world is asleep.

Six. Play like children. Pretend for the night that you are characters from a favorite book, film, or fairy tale. A new role can set your libido free.

senseofstyle 64M

6/30/2006 7:41 pm

VG lotslove SizzlingofHove

lovemetouchme5 replies on 6/30/2006 8:29 pm:
Hi Senseofstyle! and Welcome to my blog! I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say here, but thanks! Loveme

curiousinlorain7 59F

7/2/2006 10:22 am

here is my story that i wrote for the challenge

Okay, today is the day! Carpe Diem ... and all that jazz. I’m not only going to fulfil one fantasy but two today, if everything goes right. I mean, darn it, I’m in a foreign country I’d better get my fantasy done today! (The Brits may speak the language but rest assured they are foreign!!)

First make sure you can get the address of this place, business card would be best.
Ah ....Business card firmly in hand ready. All set, ready to walk into this place and see what trouble I can find. Takes deep breath, firms up shoulders, pushes door open, walks in. Pause in the doorway, less for ‘effect’ more for adjustment of eyes from light to dark. Mmmm, what is it about the pubs in small towns in England that just seem like coming home? Okay eyes ready, scan the room to see several men looking in my direction.

Ah, there he is, sitting at the bar ordering a pint. Tall good looking man, looks British and looks like a writer. I slowly make my way over to him. As I walk towards him, he keeps his eye on me and starts a nice slow smile. I stand before him and smile myself. We stare at each other for moments, or hours, hard to tell it is intense. The heat has already started between us. I put my hand on his shoulder and say ‘Darling! I’ve been looking for you!’ He reaches around my waist pulls me in and says ‘You’ve found me then.’ I reach up and give him a long slow kiss that lasts forever. At first I can tell I’ve taken him by surprise but he gives into the kiss. Both bodies lean into one another and then our lips part with a deep sigh. We both rest on each other for a moment and then I pass him the business card and say ‘honey you are supposed to meet me at this address, give me a few mins headstart.’

I turn and leave the pub gleeful! That’s one fantasy done! A simple fantasy really, walks up to a total stranger and kiss him. But it was great, now I wonder if he’ll follow?

I get to the little clothing store that is the address that I’ve given him. The store clerk sees me and tells me the fitting room is ready for me and asks me if I’ve found my boyfriend. I tell her yes, he is right behind me, and if is on queue the doors open and in he walks! He does look perplexed the poor dear. I walk up to him and say ‘ honey I’m glad you found me, let’s go in the room and you can give me your opinion of things’ I take his hand and walk him back to the back of the store and into the dressing rooms. He still has that puzzled look until I open the door to the changing room. This is a palace of fitting rooms! Inside are two huge mirrors on two walls. There is a large chair almost the size of a small love set. Illumination begins to dawn on my willing captive and he starts his big grin. I close the door and he leans in for a kiss which we do. I tell him to have a seat and he does. I then reach for the items I had the clerk bring into the room already for me.

The same time I touch the garments for trying on, my captive realizes what they are and makes the appropriate sounds. I have a stack of lovely teddies and nighties to try on, and of course I have to get naked in between each item. He settles into his chair with the promise of good things to come.

I slowly take off my clothes and slip into the first nighty. It is sheer and very silky. It flows over my body and feels like heaven on!! I know I look good in it, I’ve already tried it on alone. I slowly move toward my man and ask him, does this one look good? He reaches out to touch and I say NO! Only look, no touch. But I move my hands over my body to show him how sensual this garment is on me sliding my hands slowly over my breasts so he can see how the nipples are getting hard. I then slowly slide it off in the same motion that I’ve used to caress my body and before he realizes it, I’ve taken the garment off and am once again naked before him.

Leaving the nighty on the floor I take the teddy in my hand and put it on with matching knickers. My breasts swell up over the top of the teddy making them appear quite ready for fun. Then I slowly walk over to him and ask what he thinks of this outfit. I can already tell he either likes it or he has shopped for bananas before he came in the store.
He reaches out to touch but brings hand back and looks at me for approval first. I lean in and give him a long deep kiss using my tongue for the first time then whisper in his ear, the hooks to unhook me are in the front, would you like to help me with them. Which of course he gladly does. He is so concentrated on the undoing of the multi little hooks that he thinks I am only steadying myself on him. But, in reality I’ve undone all of his buttons on his shirt and at the same time he sits back to let my teddy fall to the ground I lean back and take his shirt with me, timing it perfectly. He has leaned forward to undo me and I take the shirt off him before he sits back. He is amazed to see he is now topless, just like I am. I grin, then kneel down before him. I slowly, and with assistance, undo his belt and zipper. Exposing his lovely hardened cock. I slowly kiss it and lick it. I look up at him and his eyes are big!!! He wonders if I’m actually going to do this, here, in this public place. And of course I am.
I reach in and caress his balls with my hands while I slowly take all of him in my mouth. He is trying his best to be quiet but he reaches down and starts to caress my breasts and small soft moans escape from his mouth. Just as I have him very ready, and very hard I stop. And slowly spread my legs on each side of him in this huge giant chair and ease myself down on his nice hard cock.
His eyes get huge and a somewhat medium deep moan fills the room. We bring our bodies together slow and passionately. All of a sudden the realization where he is hits him and he starts to say we have to stop. Hard to talk when I put one of my breasts in his mouth and the other one in his hand.

He gives into the total act of unexpected pleasure. Our bodies move together like it’s been written to be so since the beginning of time. Both of us are hot and have sweat glistening our bodies. The smell of raw emotions filling the room. We try to keep our moans to a minimum remembering where we are, but we are unsuccessful I am afraid. We both climax in this very intense last thrust. And collapse spent and fulfilled onto each other both taking deep breaths, both trying to regain our composure.

Then we both grin and unwind ourselves from each other. He brushes my hair from my face and draws me in for one last passionate kiss. Then says ‘ and my mates told me Dover was a dull place to do business!’ As he gets dressed he leans in and says, keep the teddy to remember me by, I’ll buy it for you on my way out. Then he walks out of the room. I sit in the chair and catch my breath.

Then I realize all I have left of my fantasy handsome stranger is something he dropped on the floor that I’ll have forever...just a little tiny dirty Dusty Widget.

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