so what is sexy?  

love_2_hump_u 59M
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10/16/2005 7:32 am

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9/5/2006 11:03 am

so what is sexy?

A lady I know says that what's sexy in a man (or woman) is confidence. If a man's comfortable in his own skin and at ease with his abilities and limitations, that's really sexy. I know that one time when I met an AdultFriendFinder friend for the first time, I was waiting outside of a supermarket for her. She was in her vehicle in the parking lot just watching me for about five minutes before we met. She wanted to see my body language. She liked what she saw.

So what say you? Is being sexy at its root more a matter of confidence than physical appearance?

Nashville2Ga 54

7/23/2006 12:50 pm

I agree. But, it's not only confidence. There has to be an initial attraction as well for anything else to happen, the other factors that you want in a mate have to come into play. For me, one of the biggest is intelligence. They have to be able to hold a conversation with reasonably good grammar and not say phrases that grate on my nerves such as: git-er-dun, she do?, ah-ight, etc., etc., etc....

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